On Sunday I went to a BBQ. I had a little to much to drink, and some asshole decided that was the time to take advantage of the situation. He kept trying to pull me off behind the fence. I tried to get away, I even went inside. He of course followed me around and kept pushing me up against stuff and kissing me.
The host then called me a whore. It doesn't matter if I was fucking flirting with the guy or not. NO MEANS FUCKING NO. The host said you should have walked away. I tried and I was trying to stay away from him.
I am glad the hosts wife saw everything.
So now I have been kicking myself thinking well maybe if I shouldn't have lead him on. But then I tell myself no that I did nothing wrong. He was in the wrong for trying to fuck a girl while she was drunk and after she said no.
But nothing ended up happening, it was all a bunch of military guys. Guys that my roommate works with. He said that guy is so lucky that he is on leave for a month. Or he would have kicked the guys ass the next day at work. That could fuck up my roommates career.
Maybe I should just stay away from military guys. Its not like I planned to hook up with nothing but military guys. But I am living in a military town. So it just kind of happened that way.
The host then called me a whore. It doesn't matter if I was fucking flirting with the guy or not. NO MEANS FUCKING NO. The host said you should have walked away. I tried and I was trying to stay away from him.
I am glad the hosts wife saw everything.
So now I have been kicking myself thinking well maybe if I shouldn't have lead him on. But then I tell myself no that I did nothing wrong. He was in the wrong for trying to fuck a girl while she was drunk and after she said no.
But nothing ended up happening, it was all a bunch of military guys. Guys that my roommate works with. He said that guy is so lucky that he is on leave for a month. Or he would have kicked the guys ass the next day at work. That could fuck up my roommates career.
Maybe I should just stay away from military guys. Its not like I planned to hook up with nothing but military guys. But I am living in a military town. So it just kind of happened that way.
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Also, it sounds like your host needs a reality check and swift kick. Hopefully his wife will set him straight - dumbass.
Military guys aren't all bad. a lot of my family was in the military. Unfortunately many of the younger guys, military or not, haven't been taught proper manners and to respect women.
Stay strong and don't beat yourself up. You didn't do anything wrong.