Well i just finally told her and she didnt take it too well but oh well...i had to do it. I cant go on doing something im not happy with. So im single now and pretty happy about it..thanks for the two that commented. I appreciate the responds 
comixbookgurl:
At least you are happy about it.
kryptik:
no problem. glad you are happy and now you can move on and do your thing.
glad you are happy and now you can move on and do your thing.