tonkakatt

I'll tell you. It's kinda nice that you would jump to "moral standards". With this issue, in regards to a male, the first reaction is always, always, "There must be something wrong with him", "He must be afraid of women", or maybe even "He must be gay."

You will never hear, "He must have great self-control."

Yea, sounds like a good guy. Unfortunately most people don't know anyone like that. So their outlook is fool-headed.