I had by far the most retarded night of my life last night and now im stuck in a position that i hate being in - when 2 people whom i care about very much are practicly at eachothers throat with chainsaws.
i met up with some friends last night around 1.30 at a bar - had a few drinks, waited for our other friends to finish working and ultimately we all went back to renees apartment to party some more.
Renee has recently kicked a coke habit and decided to pursue a career as a flight attendant so he can travel the world. this requires that he be absolutely clean of any drug aka pot.
when we got to renees place i did what i always do and rolled a huge joint and sparked it - not knowing that in the past few days renee had told everyone no pot in his apartment anymore. when he walked in he flipped his shit because people who he had told not to were smoking right in his face oblivious to the fact that he could not have it being blown in his face let alone in his apartment.
Dana i guess was wasted when he told everyone the new house rules about pot and didn't remember and so didn't get why renee freaked out when he got home to an apartment full of dope smoke.
These are 2 people who i hold very close to me and i would never want to see anything bad happen to either of them. Now Renee is furious and Dana is oblivious.
I went outside to have a smoke with renee to see what was on his mind maybe try and calm him down abit and then dana came out and tried to hug him and he told her not to touch him right now.
"Why?"
"Because i'm furious at you"
"Why i didn't do anything"
"You blew pot smoke in my face, you know i can't have that near me right now"
"You never told me not to smoke around you"
"Yes I did many times, please leave my apartment"
At this point, i guess the booze started to do most of the talking for both of them. Renee ended up getting a little physical with Dana in an effort to get her out of his apartment after she disregarded his original request.
Suddenly i find myself stuck between a rock and a hard place. Renee should never have laid a hand on Dana, and Dana, i love her to death, but Dana should have been less of a dumbass about the whole thing.
I can't take sides nor do i want to.
How the fuck am i supposed to fix this? Dana thinks that by me not doing anything Im on renees side - I froze when renee started pushing dana - i didn't know what to do. i knew it was wrong. i knew the whole situation was wrong but i didn't know what to do.
AAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! Sometimes you just realize how dumb people can be i guess.... fuck this shit I'm getting so frustrated trying to wave a white flag. I have a feeling I'm going to end up losing Dana as a friend because of this whole thing simply because i did not know how to react.
wow.
On a much less shitty note, I am getting my rib tattoo finished tomorrow. I'm super stoked about it. It will be round 3 on this piece, the final round i hope.
i met up with some friends last night around 1.30 at a bar - had a few drinks, waited for our other friends to finish working and ultimately we all went back to renees apartment to party some more.
Renee has recently kicked a coke habit and decided to pursue a career as a flight attendant so he can travel the world. this requires that he be absolutely clean of any drug aka pot.
when we got to renees place i did what i always do and rolled a huge joint and sparked it - not knowing that in the past few days renee had told everyone no pot in his apartment anymore. when he walked in he flipped his shit because people who he had told not to were smoking right in his face oblivious to the fact that he could not have it being blown in his face let alone in his apartment.
Dana i guess was wasted when he told everyone the new house rules about pot and didn't remember and so didn't get why renee freaked out when he got home to an apartment full of dope smoke.
These are 2 people who i hold very close to me and i would never want to see anything bad happen to either of them. Now Renee is furious and Dana is oblivious.
I went outside to have a smoke with renee to see what was on his mind maybe try and calm him down abit and then dana came out and tried to hug him and he told her not to touch him right now.
"Why?"
"Because i'm furious at you"
"Why i didn't do anything"
"You blew pot smoke in my face, you know i can't have that near me right now"
"You never told me not to smoke around you"
"Yes I did many times, please leave my apartment"
At this point, i guess the booze started to do most of the talking for both of them. Renee ended up getting a little physical with Dana in an effort to get her out of his apartment after she disregarded his original request.
Suddenly i find myself stuck between a rock and a hard place. Renee should never have laid a hand on Dana, and Dana, i love her to death, but Dana should have been less of a dumbass about the whole thing.
I can't take sides nor do i want to.
How the fuck am i supposed to fix this? Dana thinks that by me not doing anything Im on renees side - I froze when renee started pushing dana - i didn't know what to do. i knew it was wrong. i knew the whole situation was wrong but i didn't know what to do.
AAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! Sometimes you just realize how dumb people can be i guess.... fuck this shit I'm getting so frustrated trying to wave a white flag. I have a feeling I'm going to end up losing Dana as a friend because of this whole thing simply because i did not know how to react.
wow.
On a much less shitty note, I am getting my rib tattoo finished tomorrow. I'm super stoked about it. It will be round 3 on this piece, the final round i hope.
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Thanks for the FR.
whole thing is just a stupid intoxicated miscommunication and i was lucky enough to be sober enough to realize that....my friends....not so much