Hubby's cousin is coming to stay with us for 3 nights with her baby.
I'm stressing out a little bit about it. I don't really get her. She's a bit younger than us, and she is a recovering drug addict. She lived with us for awhile when we first moved in together, and it was just bad news. Her boyfriend moved in without an ok from us, he ended up cutting a huge hole in the garage of the house we were renting, they both stole from us (this was when she was still on drugs), and they expected us to buy and prepare all their food for them.
I just can't get past all that. She has definitely changed. She's off the drugs, and I believe that, but I can't bring myself to fully trust her. Also, from the drugs, her mindset is like stuck at age 12, and she gets painfully annoying. I can enjoy stupid/gross humor, but with her, that's like all you get. Makes my brain wanna die.
Her daughter is almost 9 months old. That stresses me out too. We are toddler proofed in the house, but it's been awhile since a baby was around. And she doesn't watch her, and we have a dog, and 2 cats, and and and. *sigh*
I'll just be glad when she leaves. I know how horrible that sounds, but I can't help it.
I'm stressing out a little bit about it. I don't really get her. She's a bit younger than us, and she is a recovering drug addict. She lived with us for awhile when we first moved in together, and it was just bad news. Her boyfriend moved in without an ok from us, he ended up cutting a huge hole in the garage of the house we were renting, they both stole from us (this was when she was still on drugs), and they expected us to buy and prepare all their food for them.
I just can't get past all that. She has definitely changed. She's off the drugs, and I believe that, but I can't bring myself to fully trust her. Also, from the drugs, her mindset is like stuck at age 12, and she gets painfully annoying. I can enjoy stupid/gross humor, but with her, that's like all you get. Makes my brain wanna die.
Her daughter is almost 9 months old. That stresses me out too. We are toddler proofed in the house, but it's been awhile since a baby was around. And she doesn't watch her, and we have a dog, and 2 cats, and and and. *sigh*
I'll just be glad when she leaves. I know how horrible that sounds, but I can't help it.
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If yah need to bail at some point you can always stop by. We'll keep Spencer strapped to the couch where it is safe. I swear we will have the majority of the house done this month...maybe.
Hopefully her visit isn't too stressful and goes by quickly. It's great to be there for family, but no one's going to judge you for having your limits! Good luck!