*RANT*
UGH I don't know if anyone remembers, but last year I was having problems at work with my co-worker Judy. It had gotten to the point where it was obvious that she disliked me for some reason. She ignored me, talked shit about me to her son (who works with my husband), talked shit about me while I was there (though she didn't know I could hear), and tried to get me in trouble for things that she did.
We (Jeff and I) thought at the time that it was because I was in good with our (then) boss, Tina, and nobody else got along with her. And it was pretty much confirmed when Tina got fired, and slowly but surely, Judy started talking to me more and more, and being nicer to me until it seemed like she had no problem with me at all. Things were good for awhile. I still felt a bit like an outsider at work, but it was better.
Today, I felt like I was shot back down to shit.
I had been having a great day really. No morning sickness, no headache, just a good day. As I was getting ready to leave work, I moved some paperwork from one basket to another, and then started getting ready to leave. Judy (not being able to see me) said in a huff "Did you just see that?? She threw that paperwork back in the basket after holding onto it and not working on it! She just threw it back!!" to our co-worker, Andrea. And in her voice you could tell this wasn't the first time she pointed out something that I did. Now, Andrea could see me, and in turn, covered for me saying that the paperwork was done, it just needed to be filed. I just got my stuff and walked out without saying my usual goodbyes.
Now you may not see that as a big deal, but it brought me to tears and made Jeff so mad that he wanted to say something to the HR rep. Judy has a tendency to make people think I don't do my job, and this was right in turn with that. Too bad I was moving the paperwork because SHE put it in the wrong basket in the first place.
WHY THE HELL CAN'T I JUST BRING MYSELF TO CALL HER ON HER SHIT? I hate that I'm such a p-word. UGH. I hate it.
UGH I don't know if anyone remembers, but last year I was having problems at work with my co-worker Judy. It had gotten to the point where it was obvious that she disliked me for some reason. She ignored me, talked shit about me to her son (who works with my husband), talked shit about me while I was there (though she didn't know I could hear), and tried to get me in trouble for things that she did.
We (Jeff and I) thought at the time that it was because I was in good with our (then) boss, Tina, and nobody else got along with her. And it was pretty much confirmed when Tina got fired, and slowly but surely, Judy started talking to me more and more, and being nicer to me until it seemed like she had no problem with me at all. Things were good for awhile. I still felt a bit like an outsider at work, but it was better.
Today, I felt like I was shot back down to shit.
I had been having a great day really. No morning sickness, no headache, just a good day. As I was getting ready to leave work, I moved some paperwork from one basket to another, and then started getting ready to leave. Judy (not being able to see me) said in a huff "Did you just see that?? She threw that paperwork back in the basket after holding onto it and not working on it! She just threw it back!!" to our co-worker, Andrea. And in her voice you could tell this wasn't the first time she pointed out something that I did. Now, Andrea could see me, and in turn, covered for me saying that the paperwork was done, it just needed to be filed. I just got my stuff and walked out without saying my usual goodbyes.
Now you may not see that as a big deal, but it brought me to tears and made Jeff so mad that he wanted to say something to the HR rep. Judy has a tendency to make people think I don't do my job, and this was right in turn with that. Too bad I was moving the paperwork because SHE put it in the wrong basket in the first place.
WHY THE HELL CAN'T I JUST BRING MYSELF TO CALL HER ON HER SHIT? I hate that I'm such a p-word. UGH. I hate it.
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AND... if she knew why you had moved the papers she'd look like quite an ass and thus, that's why you stay out of other peoples business.
Isn't she the one that got huffy and puffy going " why isn't Orie here yet?!" or shes late or something to that effect when in fact you weren't late and already there?
Your nice and sweet and all that but you do indeed need to put her in her place.