So the roomy and his girlfriend Liz broke up again about a week ago. It's kind of weird, because if you didn't know, you wouldn't be able to tell. Jeff and Liz's best friend Kim keep trying to tell them they need time apart, and that they shouldn't be hanging out (much less having sex) as much as they do, but they don't agree.
Back story: Liz just turned 21, and CJ (the roomy) is 28. Not a huge difference, but CJ has lived a LOT of life in his 28 years. He gets really frustrated with her, on almost a daily basis, for the simple reason of her being so young and "just not getting it". They fight constantly. Screaming, crying, fights. The last time they broke up it was because she didn't want to be tied down to just one guy. THIS time it was because she's not sure that he will be able to take care of a family (that neither of them have ever talked about having), and that he can't even fend for himself (which he does, and has been doing the whole time they have been together).
It's really frustrating for me because I know that he'll just get hurt in the end. And he just won't see it. It's really hard after all of this to give her the benefit of the doubt. Yet, she's here now, and she brought her pillow and an overnight bag. Jeff like, litterally hates her now (after talking to her best friend about the situation). He never "hates" people. And he's stated that he almost feels like I'm going against him when I'm nice to her. It's making a very awkward situation for me. And it has nothing to do with me.
Everyone is civil around each other. Liz knows how Jeff feels about her, because CJ told her (dumbass) so now he says she feels weird around Jeff (which Jeff doesn't care about). So it's hard for me to bring myself to let CJ know that I mostly agree with Jeff, because I don't want him to feel alienated in his own home.
**EDIT** I'm pretty sure the first time I clicked post, they started yelling at eachother again... FUN!
Thanks everyone for letting me vent. Omeganightmare and Mavenist, you guys are the only ones who know the players in the situation, but I would greatly appreciate it if you wouldn't say anything to them about this. I just needed an outlet, because I feel like bottling all of this up is really bad for me and the baby.
*hugs*
Back story: Liz just turned 21, and CJ (the roomy) is 28. Not a huge difference, but CJ has lived a LOT of life in his 28 years. He gets really frustrated with her, on almost a daily basis, for the simple reason of her being so young and "just not getting it". They fight constantly. Screaming, crying, fights. The last time they broke up it was because she didn't want to be tied down to just one guy. THIS time it was because she's not sure that he will be able to take care of a family (that neither of them have ever talked about having), and that he can't even fend for himself (which he does, and has been doing the whole time they have been together).
It's really frustrating for me because I know that he'll just get hurt in the end. And he just won't see it. It's really hard after all of this to give her the benefit of the doubt. Yet, she's here now, and she brought her pillow and an overnight bag. Jeff like, litterally hates her now (after talking to her best friend about the situation). He never "hates" people. And he's stated that he almost feels like I'm going against him when I'm nice to her. It's making a very awkward situation for me. And it has nothing to do with me.
Everyone is civil around each other. Liz knows how Jeff feels about her, because CJ told her (dumbass) so now he says she feels weird around Jeff (which Jeff doesn't care about). So it's hard for me to bring myself to let CJ know that I mostly agree with Jeff, because I don't want him to feel alienated in his own home.
**EDIT** I'm pretty sure the first time I clicked post, they started yelling at eachother again... FUN!
Thanks everyone for letting me vent. Omeganightmare and Mavenist, you guys are the only ones who know the players in the situation, but I would greatly appreciate it if you wouldn't say anything to them about this. I just needed an outlet, because I feel like bottling all of this up is really bad for me and the baby.
*hugs*
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omeganightmare:
Yah I don't get it either...I guess some people use that stuff to fill some sort of void. Too bad there wasn't some sort of spray you could get to clear it up...like frabreeze for drama
odette:
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