My 3rd year Anniversary with Adair is today, I'm rather happy though tired so I better be off to bed. But before I do that I thought I should update this thing. My hopes to become more active within the site were rather diminished as I found myself doing everything but that; though I have been rather busy with a more in person social life....
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fatality:
I'll trade you. I need to become less active on this site....
So the weirdest thing happened to me today, I was walking home and there were like a million earth worms on the sidewalk, they were everywhere. I also got pissed off at work today but it was in a beneficial way... I'm got pissed at myself and now I'm going to go super fast because I "can".
So as predicted Joanne (we aren't calling her mother anymore) is being very hard on my and actually acting out of line... she's demanding I pay her rent when she's a tenent upstairs in this house that I dwell in occasionally. To that I said fuck off, but otherwise I have changed my attitude to be as helpful as possible to see if that gets...
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Bollix, my Nanna, or rather landlord has gone away for the month and that leaves the two tenets upstairs who hate my guts, might I add that they are my mother and my sister... and so I am currently being attacked with criticism and a plethora of unfair treatment. This is because my Nanna is usually at my defense when she is here and now...
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sadistic_glee:
They hate you because you're better than them, and they know it. 
dalila:
thanks for your comment! 
Ok so I'm doing good in my new job and it is a good job with good hours so John=happy.
Other than that I'm probably leaving Zeller's, and I'm proud of Adair for starting her first ever game (pen and paper) and it seems really good so far.
Well that's it for now I suppose nothing really to rant about, oh I'm also going to...
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Other than that I'm probably leaving Zeller's, and I'm proud of Adair for starting her first ever game (pen and paper) and it seems really good so far.
Well that's it for now I suppose nothing really to rant about, oh I'm also going to...
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sadistic_glee:
oh I'm also going to attempt to get more involved on the site with forums and groups.
It'll be good to see you around... not that I've been very active in the groups lately... 
Good to hear things are looking up for ya! You must of stolen my high, coz things are going shit for me at the moment... but there are still enough good things to keep a bit of balance... it's a strange state of affairs. 
adair:
Yay! I can't believe I just looked at this now. My game is good? Hurah! 
So the counselling appointment went as smoothly as one could hope for. However we will be attending more in the future and seeing a different counsellor, one who specializes in parent/child communication issues.
I start my training at Mr. Sub in two days and I'm kind of nervous to say the least. Though I've surprised myself with how much I remembered from just talking to...
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I start my training at Mr. Sub in two days and I'm kind of nervous to say the least. Though I've surprised myself with how much I remembered from just talking to...
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sadistic_glee:
Good to hear things are looking up!
Your speel on the innards of different subs made me chuckle. Gotta admire one's dedication to their job...
I can't laugh too much though. Seems I'm falling for a Subway girl, and this lingo may come in handy. Hehe.
Your speel on the innards of different subs made me chuckle. Gotta admire one's dedication to their job...
I can't laugh too much though. Seems I'm falling for a Subway girl, and this lingo may come in handy. Hehe.
Ok so life is going relatively good now. I got it on track and my mother and I are talking... she's helping me with my finances and helping me get my debt paid off.
We have a counselling appointment this Saturday but I really have nothing to talk about seeing as how I don't really want to make our good terms go back to bad...
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We have a counselling appointment this Saturday but I really have nothing to talk about seeing as how I don't really want to make our good terms go back to bad...
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skankzero:
i used to werk at stingers when i was eighteen. they had hired two of us for the counterhelp position, with plans of an apprenticeship. i got laid off a few months later because there wasn't enough money coming in, (supposedly) and the other guy got an apprenticeship. my friend jenny just got the counterhelp position that they were hiring for.
Ok so homelife is ok to say the least, the course is going pretty well and I'm meeting some fairly interesting people. However my cat is in heat and won't be quiet for two seconds so I'm surviving off of about four hours sleep on average. Does anyone know how long this is supposed to last and if there is anyway to make her be...
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Ok pretty much everything was resolved this past weekend, all fears were put to an end. However my mother and I are still not talk but that is okay because I've started my career planning course and it's awesome. I've already met a few cool people and reunited with some old friends. Adair and I are ok, we had a great weekend together and she...
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sadistic_glee:
So you're getting on with your life despite the difficulties? Sounds like a good plan. Good to hear that things between you and Adair are all good too!
Good to hear that things between you and Adair are all good too!So I hit a new low yesterday, one that I didn't know was possible. Though I went and talked to a friend of mine, Dustin and he helped me sort a lot of stuff out. He helped put everything in perspective and maybe I have been more in the wrong than I thought I was. However that doesn't change the fact that my mother was...
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souspire:
I am sorry you are having the deep family and domestic troubles. (I was directed here from Adair's journal.) You seem resilient and smart, so I think you can be confident you will see a way out. Please don't question the girlfriend relationship. It is quite apparent that the woman cares about you immensely. And, she seem genuinely wonderful, similarly bright and literate to you, and incredibly adorable. You are lucky to be close to her, and I hope you remain so.
Take care! And don't do anything rash or second-guess the decisions you think through!
Take care! And don't do anything rash or second-guess the decisions you think through!
sadistic_glee:
souspire said:
It is quite apparent that the woman cares about you immensely. And, she seem genuinely wonderful, similarly bright and literate to you, and incredibly adorable. You are lucky to be close to her, and I hope you remain so.
I was going to say the exact same thing!
Well, Tiriel, I admit I know fuck all about both you and your girl, or about your situation. But it really sounds as though the two of you make a great couple. So hang in there and do your best to clear up the confusion, coz Adair has sung nothing but praise about you, and I'm sure she'll understand. Relationships will always be challenged, and true friends meet and overcome them. All you can do is talk to her about it. Support her like she has supported you, coz it sounds like right now she needs it.
Hope things improve soon. I'd have gone nuts by now...