thyestean23

read my May 28th blog for how f*cked up the situation is!

That's not a cool situation at all my friend, I'm a complete and utter failure when it comes to understanding the complex and inherently illogical thought processes of girls generally speaking.

It sounds like change would really be good for you and everyone else involved too, I know there's nothing worse for kids than growing up in an environment where the parents resent and loathe each other but carry on under the pretense of being "the happy family".

There's a few guys where I work that are kind of ground down and bitter due to being stuck in mutually unbeneficial partnerships with people just to avoid the psychological trauma of divorce.

It's disturbingly easy to find yourself down in a hole and then feel like you're not allowed to even acknowledge it without opening yourself up to attack.

Well I hope things look up for you sooner rather than later.

good luck, I'm sorry you're going through that.

hey nothing like a good grudge fuck to make things interesting.... stay safe out there and you only got a few more months if i recall correctly. what are you looking to fly?

wow... life moves fast.

not sure about the slip up with the ex, but then again we all find comfort in the familiar even if it's not what we remembered it to be.

good luck with flight school

i hope you have a safe trip.

Be safe...

hope they let you out for some beers

I think I like that getting drunk is cheaper than shaving. I hate shaving anyway.

Hope it warms up for you.

Congratulations.

I hope you have fun when you make it back home.

Congrats dude, have fun here in so. cal.

Glad things are looking up for ya

well...good luck with that. I know nothing of military classifications but enough about fvemales to be as confused as you are. Will you be walking on eggshells once you get home?

my cousin right now is going through a divorce....the starting step for him taking action was getting a seperate bank account after she drained his account of about $1000 "for Halloween costumes".

then she called Child Protective Services on him twice...his final breaking point was when she filed harrassment charges against him for calling her cell phone (she made him over 1/2 hour late to his job).

in her charges, stated that he was "suicidal"...the charges came around the same time of the anniversary of his father committing suicide (in 2004).

sometimes, its a matter of saying "enough". you're in a tough situation....could be a point where you say "we're civil for our child's sake" and that's it. she really complains or anything, get legal counsel and protect yourself. a lawyer does NOT mean divorce. but it does mean protection!

just my thoughts at least.

and yeah, no one to vent to really does suck sometimes!

Slim as it may be, there is a chance

looks like a good way to blow off a little steam for sure

well true but it is good to pay attention to so you don't have to look at the big stuff.
but yes a good thing to remember

Nah don't apologise for the rant, I've always found it very therapeutic and personally confrontational (in a good way) to pen/type things down so they become something tangible, than just liquid thoughts in my head.

But yeah I'm gonna have to say I'm a little more afraid of a mortar shell than a woman in my life at the moment, so I haven't got too much wisdom to impart I'm afraid haha best of luck man, you're back soon I suppose?

i remember that thought that you could die at anytime and being numb to the idea. but mine was not going to be the painless one you wouldn't know about, but we were still indifferent to the idea.
i hear you on the bad relationships thing. have fun on leave. if you make it up phx way let us know.