My favorite line people have said: "I'm not afraid of you" when they know they've done wrong and I confront them. In their eyes I see guilt and the urge to run, but usually when I confron them, they are positioned in a corner or in a narrow hallway where my 200 pound frame becomes an immovable object.
Looking at them they look like they want to piss themselves - I'm not afraid of you......why is it people say the opposite of what they feel when emotions are high? Just like two ex-girlfriends of mine. Both times they broke up it was, it's not you, it's me - when the reality of it all was they both cheated on me (not with eachother, but that brings up a wild image) for reasons I have come to understand were just incompatible with their personalities.
Then you have this ass-wipe designer who works for me (another ex: ex-employee) who has been dragging his feet on a project to ensure he gets paid. Guess he thinks if he wasn't working on something he wouldn't get paid despite having given a 30 day notice. His comment: "I'm working as hard as I can to finish this" It's taking him 6 weeks to do something that took him 3 weeks when he first started.
So why can't people just be honest- "you scare the shit out of me right now!" or "you know, I just can't stand living with you and I want to fuck other guys" or even, "I'm an ass and have fucked over so many people in my past that I'm afraid you won't pay me".
Yes, that would make all in the world perfect.......
Looking at them they look like they want to piss themselves - I'm not afraid of you......why is it people say the opposite of what they feel when emotions are high? Just like two ex-girlfriends of mine. Both times they broke up it was, it's not you, it's me - when the reality of it all was they both cheated on me (not with eachother, but that brings up a wild image) for reasons I have come to understand were just incompatible with their personalities.
Then you have this ass-wipe designer who works for me (another ex: ex-employee) who has been dragging his feet on a project to ensure he gets paid. Guess he thinks if he wasn't working on something he wouldn't get paid despite having given a 30 day notice. His comment: "I'm working as hard as I can to finish this" It's taking him 6 weeks to do something that took him 3 weeks when he first started.
So why can't people just be honest- "you scare the shit out of me right now!" or "you know, I just can't stand living with you and I want to fuck other guys" or even, "I'm an ass and have fucked over so many people in my past that I'm afraid you won't pay me".
Yes, that would make all in the world perfect.......
And you know, I live my life being very honest. It makes me a lot of enemies. People often think I am psychotic simply because they cannot fathom why someone would be so honest about themselves and life unless they were psychotic and in need of medication... It doesn't change the way I deal with people, I've found that it is a really good tool for weeding out the pathetic shitheads who cannot even be honest with themselves. I am not 200 pounds but people are often afraid of me as well... Fuck 'em!