Here's an interesting morality question / story:
When I was first going to college I live in a house with three women. Each of us had our own room, I had my own bathroom and the three of them shared one. Over the course of two years we got to be good friends and I became very protective of all (who were one to five years older than me) and they of me just like a family.
There was none of this Real World bullshit of roommates getting it on or sleeping together until near the end of my stay there, one of the girls who was close to my age had just gotten into her first relationship with a guy (she was 22 I think) and as they started to progress down the dating trail a very odd situation occured: He suggested that since she was a virgin and had not experienced sex, that perhaps she should try it out with me first and learn what to do
She was an attractive girl, smart and certainly someone I enjoyed hanging out with. But I was dating someone else and was actually offended that the guy would suggest such a thing. The unfortunate part of the story is she approached me and asked if I would be interested ( I didn't realize until later that she had a crush on me). The friendship went down hill after that and I never heard from her again.
I don't think it helped that soon after that incident the girl I was dating moved on and I rebounded into another relationship a week later
It probably also didn't help that I introduced that room mate to pornos and watched them with her one day
When I was first going to college I live in a house with three women. Each of us had our own room, I had my own bathroom and the three of them shared one. Over the course of two years we got to be good friends and I became very protective of all (who were one to five years older than me) and they of me just like a family.
There was none of this Real World bullshit of roommates getting it on or sleeping together until near the end of my stay there, one of the girls who was close to my age had just gotten into her first relationship with a guy (she was 22 I think) and as they started to progress down the dating trail a very odd situation occured: He suggested that since she was a virgin and had not experienced sex, that perhaps she should try it out with me first and learn what to do
She was an attractive girl, smart and certainly someone I enjoyed hanging out with. But I was dating someone else and was actually offended that the guy would suggest such a thing. The unfortunate part of the story is she approached me and asked if I would be interested ( I didn't realize until later that she had a crush on me). The friendship went down hill after that and I never heard from her again.
I don't think it helped that soon after that incident the girl I was dating moved on and I rebounded into another relationship a week later
It probably also didn't help that I introduced that room mate to pornos and watched them with her one day