thlh

Saturday was a strange day and I haven't been able to sleep since then. Not because it bothers me, but I just can't quite believe it.
I haven't seen my ex-fiance since Christmas and it was August 2005 before that. Saturday morning, out of the blue she calls: "Hey, I'm driving past your place right now. Would you like to get coffee?" The thing that makes this so bizarre is that she lives in Cleveland. Out of curiosity I agreed to meet and as we have actually been on very good terms since breaking up, it was nice to talk to her and find out what she was up to (I didn't ask, she just likes to talk).
That's the part that floored me. We broke up because I didn't want to move to Cleveland and she didn't want to move to Detroit. Why was she in Detroit on Saturday? "I've been dating this guy in Ferndale and I quite my job and was getting ready to move here, but we broke up."
I guess the thing that bugs me the most is that THAT is exactly what she wouldn't do for me and I KNOW, no one treated her better than me.
Now I don't regret the break up as things have gone very well for ME since then and for some reason I have had no desire to even date anyone which is actually nice since my libido has ruled my life since I was 10.
I guess I can find solace in the fact that I moved on and improved while she seems to be stuck in a rut. I don't wish her ill, she is a very kind and generous person (that talks too much) I just wish that she would wake up and realize she is in the same cycle again.