Is it a deal breaker if a guy doesn't want kids? I mean, there are women out there who feel the same way, right? I am not dissing single moms or anyone in general, who may want children. It's just that I personally have no interest in being a dad or a stepdad. I may be limiting myself, if I were to automatically reject anyone who has kids. I suppose, there would have to be other factors of attraction to help me get past the kids part.
For example, I am definitely a lot more Liberal than most of my family and coworkers. More specifically, and I try to say this as respectfully as I can, I have no patience or use for anyone who supports Trump. Being a Conservative/Republican is one thing, but actually seeing any sincere human value in Trump? Oof, that's a stretch.
I also am not at all religious. If I had to label myself, I'd identify as an Atheist. Which isn't to say I hate those who are religious or spiritual. It's just that I don't have that sort of faith or belief system at play in my life. I'd imagine that if someone were a believer, even if they weren't terribly big on organized religions, they would still want someone who takes belief in a higher power seriously. I don't, so that could be seen as not taking those who do seriously. Now, imagine having kids with someone, if you don't feel like they even respect you.
Maybe it's just me that is the problem. I do see plenty of people on various sites who appear to be fellow childfree, godless, bleeding heart Liberals and I still don't get any traction with those people. Hmmm.
