So I started hanging out with this new boy who I thought was kinda cute and who likes video games and stuff.
The first day we hung out at my friend's house for my Saint Patrick's day Wii party
and WE all played the WII (note: hahaha) all night.
He seemed ok. I mean I only wanted a new friend anyway.
I never lead guys on or anything, and have the inability to flirt.
So I hung out with him a second time, yesterday.
Then he ruined it by making certain comments which revealed that he was in fact,
slightly dumber than he appeared.
Also he keeps sending flirty texts asking to cuddle and stuff.
I can tell that he assumes I like him back,
even though I've never complimented him or done anything to further that thought.
I was actually on the borderline of whether or not I could "like" him or not.
He definitely pushed me over into the "no" zone yesterday.
We hung out(shopping at Kohl's for a shirt mind you) and then he asks me if I wanna hang out again later when I get off. I decided yesterday that I didn't really wanna see him anymore.
We were talking about cars we wanted and I said I want a Smart Car.
He immediately said "Oh yeah, anything environmentally friendly I'm all about.".
I said, "No. I just think they're really cool." Because I do.
And I don't like fake people or ones that try to use certain topics to appear to be a hip, concious person.
Oh and he played Taking Back Sunday and some other emo/screamo music in his car.
I guess this is just me hating on college kids haha.
He's texted me all day today to hang out,
calling me and waking me up a couple of minutes ago when I was sleeping because I didn't respond.
I didn't answer.
Now he just texted me again.
Mind you I've only known him 2 days now.
I generally try to stick to myself,
because I know I don't like people.
Then I try and meet someone new...
and they get all overly-weird like this.
Agh!
But anyways...
SSBB GODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD.
[EDIT]
So I followed you guys' advice and told him this today.
And he was like "any specific reason?" and said that another girl had done the same thing to him recently and that he just doesn't understand girls who "freak out" about dating and stuff before he even gets to know them. He acted like he wasn't even interested, and that that was never his intention, despite the fact that he repeatedly kept telling me I was "cute" and asking to cuddle and stuff. Apparently he still wants to try and be friends. I mean I understand. If I were rejected I would probably deny any interest too. So I guess he's not totally bad, but I still don't know if I want to hang out with him or not. At least he stopped texting me so much. *sigh*
I'm not a people person. haha
The first day we hung out at my friend's house for my Saint Patrick's day Wii party
and WE all played the WII (note: hahaha) all night.
He seemed ok. I mean I only wanted a new friend anyway.
I never lead guys on or anything, and have the inability to flirt.
So I hung out with him a second time, yesterday.
Then he ruined it by making certain comments which revealed that he was in fact,
slightly dumber than he appeared.
Also he keeps sending flirty texts asking to cuddle and stuff.
I can tell that he assumes I like him back,
even though I've never complimented him or done anything to further that thought.
I was actually on the borderline of whether or not I could "like" him or not.
He definitely pushed me over into the "no" zone yesterday.
We hung out(shopping at Kohl's for a shirt mind you) and then he asks me if I wanna hang out again later when I get off. I decided yesterday that I didn't really wanna see him anymore.
We were talking about cars we wanted and I said I want a Smart Car.
He immediately said "Oh yeah, anything environmentally friendly I'm all about.".
![puke](https://dz3ixmv6nok8z.cloudfront.net/static/img/emoticons/puke.3724b71956e4.gif)
I said, "No. I just think they're really cool." Because I do.
And I don't like fake people or ones that try to use certain topics to appear to be a hip, concious person.
Oh and he played Taking Back Sunday and some other emo/screamo music in his car.
![puke](https://dz3ixmv6nok8z.cloudfront.net/static/img/emoticons/puke.3724b71956e4.gif)
![puke](https://dz3ixmv6nok8z.cloudfront.net/static/img/emoticons/puke.3724b71956e4.gif)
I guess this is just me hating on college kids haha.
He's texted me all day today to hang out,
calling me and waking me up a couple of minutes ago when I was sleeping because I didn't respond.
I didn't answer.
Now he just texted me again.
Mind you I've only known him 2 days now.
I generally try to stick to myself,
because I know I don't like people.
Then I try and meet someone new...
and they get all overly-weird like this.
Agh!
But anyways...
SSBB GODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD.
[EDIT]
So I followed you guys' advice and told him this today.
And he was like "any specific reason?" and said that another girl had done the same thing to him recently and that he just doesn't understand girls who "freak out" about dating and stuff before he even gets to know them. He acted like he wasn't even interested, and that that was never his intention, despite the fact that he repeatedly kept telling me I was "cute" and asking to cuddle and stuff. Apparently he still wants to try and be friends. I mean I understand. If I were rejected I would probably deny any interest too. So I guess he's not totally bad, but I still don't know if I want to hang out with him or not. At least he stopped texting me so much. *sigh*
I'm not a people person. haha
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super_maz:
sounds like you need a Man, not a Boy... you should stay away from the younger ones.
super_maz:
yes i am only 21... but i think i may act a little more mature than that 25 year old.