So I have come to realize that I don't exist in the world that everyone else does. This is because of my chosen career path. I am a live sound engineer aka sound guy. My job requires me to work at least 60-70 hours a week which leaves no time for anything else. Many weeks I work even more than this. What I am getting at is that I have no social life. Don't get me wrong, I have some good friends, and even manage to get laid enough to keep me sane. I just miss out on everything else. Just getting to casually hang out with people only happens once in a blue moon. The worst part of this is that developing any new meaningful relationships is damn near impossible. The result is that i feel the world is passing me by. I am so addicted to success that this may never change for me. At least it certainly won't for many years to come. I really love what I do for a living, but this is the price to be paid I guess.
I barely have enough time for my cats, let alone a human being...
and then, if you're on the road... it's even more fun.
I have a hard time finding people to "date" that aren't in the industry... and dating within the industry is something I try and avoid.
(sorry for the long comment, thanks for being my new friend!)
So do you work for a band or a live sound company? maryland sound?