Wow. I haven't updated in FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!
Holy crap. A lot has happened since then.
A lot of answers, and a few new questions.
I stopped seeing all the girls. No more harem, no more games. None of that.
I can't be a nice honest guy and live a player's lifestyle. It's unnatural and it has led me into some pretty fucked up situations. So I officially ended it! I am happy about that. I am still talking to the one girl who lives too far away to date, and she did come out to visit me. We had fun but I had to be pretty firm about being "just friends".
In other news... while I am done with dating multiple girls, I am not done with dating in general. I still want to meet someone special, and I think I have already.
I have met a new girl, and she is absolutely fucking incredible. I can't go into too much detail yet, since... well you know, I just don't wanna jinx it. Things are pretty uncertain so far but she is one HELL of a catch. Now that I am not tied up with keeping my options open, I can actually focus on just her and see where it takes us.
Updates will follow!
This probably all sounds incredibly egotistical. I just want to clarify that that is not the case. I have never been "lucky in love" but in the last year or so I have found my Mojo, so to speak. I experimented for a month or two with being a serial dater... and it blew up in my face a few times. Which is why I'm so glad to be done with it.
This quote from High Fidelity sums it up PERFECTLY, and also sums up my attitude toward my entire life. Replace the word "laura" with anything else and it still rings true.
Holy crap. A lot has happened since then.
A lot of answers, and a few new questions.
I stopped seeing all the girls. No more harem, no more games. None of that.
I can't be a nice honest guy and live a player's lifestyle. It's unnatural and it has led me into some pretty fucked up situations. So I officially ended it! I am happy about that. I am still talking to the one girl who lives too far away to date, and she did come out to visit me. We had fun but I had to be pretty firm about being "just friends".
In other news... while I am done with dating multiple girls, I am not done with dating in general. I still want to meet someone special, and I think I have already.
I have met a new girl, and she is absolutely fucking incredible. I can't go into too much detail yet, since... well you know, I just don't wanna jinx it. Things are pretty uncertain so far but she is one HELL of a catch. Now that I am not tied up with keeping my options open, I can actually focus on just her and see where it takes us.
Updates will follow!
This probably all sounds incredibly egotistical. I just want to clarify that that is not the case. I have never been "lucky in love" but in the last year or so I have found my Mojo, so to speak. I experimented for a month or two with being a serial dater... and it blew up in my face a few times. Which is why I'm so glad to be done with it.
This quote from High Fidelity sums it up PERFECTLY, and also sums up my attitude toward my entire life. Replace the word "laura" with anything else and it still rings true.
I can see now I never really committed to Laura. I always had one foot out the door, and that prevented me from doing a lot of things, like thinking about my future and... I guess it made more sense to commit to nothing, keep my options open. And that's suicide. By tiny, tiny increments.
Otherwise...
Life has been good lately. 
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Love and kisses
Michelle xx
Big kisses from a busy girl!