So it's been about 6 months since I have had sex... and about 3 months since I have even fooled around with a woman. I am starting to feel as if I am stinking of desperation. Though that would make it sound like I am actually trying to make advances on women. I haven't. I haven't even tried to start up a conversation with a stranger since I moved down here. I have just been stuck thinking about the ex. Last night, something change though.
I was out with a friend and we were waiting in line to see a show. While we were waiting we started chatting with a girl standing behind us. Next thing I know I am flirting with her and she is flirting back. It was nice. She sat next to us and we continued talking before the show started. Afterward we were leaving and she stopped me to ask about my tattoos. I realize as we parted ways she had left an opening for me to ask her out. And I didn't. Should have. Been thinking about it all day. But what's more important than that is that I did indeed have a great time with a strange woman... and she seemed to like me.
I must needs try that again!
I was out with a friend and we were waiting in line to see a show. While we were waiting we started chatting with a girl standing behind us. Next thing I know I am flirting with her and she is flirting back. It was nice. She sat next to us and we continued talking before the show started. Afterward we were leaving and she stopped me to ask about my tattoos. I realize as we parted ways she had left an opening for me to ask her out. And I didn't. Should have. Been thinking about it all day. But what's more important than that is that I did indeed have a great time with a strange woman... and she seemed to like me.
I must needs try that again!
zamn:
First steps my friend! And dammit dont make me get my ass down their and drag you out to find the ladies... we all know they are there just waiting. I know its hard but just leave the ex in the past and remember that there are tons of better options out there. I'll be in San Francisco shortly and might make frequent trips to LA for friends, etc, so when I get there we must hang. Maybe even I can get DannyT to drag his busy ass away for a while to chill as well.
camilla:
no don't say so!