What a place to start...
My husband's home after being in Iraq for a year. I'm so happy, but it's really weird. It's like living with a stranger right now. Everything he does is unfamiliar. I have to get to know him all over again, which I am completely willing to do.
Every time I try to vent people say, "Well, you are married now." and "Well, Terrie, you're going to have to compromise now." It's so frusterating. I want to be like, I know I'm married, it was my decision. I'm not saying I won't compromise. I'm just so independent now. I have systems. I'm bossy and anal retentive.
Mostly, I just want some normalcy. I want life to go on like normal. I want to go to work and do my errands and get to know him again in the process. It feels wrong to just drop everything. Sitting around the house just staring at each other is going to drive me bonkers.
My husband's home after being in Iraq for a year. I'm so happy, but it's really weird. It's like living with a stranger right now. Everything he does is unfamiliar. I have to get to know him all over again, which I am completely willing to do.
Every time I try to vent people say, "Well, you are married now." and "Well, Terrie, you're going to have to compromise now." It's so frusterating. I want to be like, I know I'm married, it was my decision. I'm not saying I won't compromise. I'm just so independent now. I have systems. I'm bossy and anal retentive.
Mostly, I just want some normalcy. I want life to go on like normal. I want to go to work and do my errands and get to know him again in the process. It feels wrong to just drop everything. Sitting around the house just staring at each other is going to drive me bonkers.
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chastety:
Yes do give a call when you can I am finially settlin down had a busy week since we got our tax return. hope all is well with ya. It would be great to hang out with you again hugs
chastety:
hey how you doing just wanted to make sure all was goin well talkto you soon