First date in a long time with a cute someone whose conversational skills consistently encourage me to use both four letter and four syllable words. She also appreciates the fact that I'm awkward, love the old fashioned opening-doors-for-ladies stuff and enjoy psychedelics. The first DATE date will be Tues night. So yeah, congratulations to me!
Here's the twist. Like as with some sort of ironic, ex-girlfriend based happiness detection radar, my ex of a 5 year relationship has decided to contact me for the first time in 1 1/2 years to sit down and have drinks. Why? I don't really know. I DO know she broke up with her boyfriend of a year or so about 4 months ago, that she knows I'm leaving for CA in July and that I would have married her back in the day if she hadn't left me for a period of "self discovery" and the fact that I hated all her friends at the time (who she has since decided to hate as well). So yeah... seeing her on Wednesday.
Anyway, I guess when it rains, it pours (this is really sad that this counts as "pouring" for me) but this is really the kind of problem I'm pretty happy to have. I don't know really how to handle all this correctly but I assume telling one or the other about the situation is not the correct move. I also don't know what my feelings are anymore when it comes to my ex which is something I suppose I need to figure out.
In summation, I'm just in a good, albeit fairly confused mood about all this and wanted to share.
Here's the twist. Like as with some sort of ironic, ex-girlfriend based happiness detection radar, my ex of a 5 year relationship has decided to contact me for the first time in 1 1/2 years to sit down and have drinks. Why? I don't really know. I DO know she broke up with her boyfriend of a year or so about 4 months ago, that she knows I'm leaving for CA in July and that I would have married her back in the day if she hadn't left me for a period of "self discovery" and the fact that I hated all her friends at the time (who she has since decided to hate as well). So yeah... seeing her on Wednesday.
Anyway, I guess when it rains, it pours (this is really sad that this counts as "pouring" for me) but this is really the kind of problem I'm pretty happy to have. I don't know really how to handle all this correctly but I assume telling one or the other about the situation is not the correct move. I also don't know what my feelings are anymore when it comes to my ex which is something I suppose I need to figure out.
In summation, I'm just in a good, albeit fairly confused mood about all this and wanted to share.