As I approach the 30th anniversary of the day world as I knew it ended, the suicide of my 15 y/o daughter, I just want to say that it is okay to not be okay. Talk to someone, ask for help, allow others to carry some of your burden. Your death does not end the pain, it transfers it to those who love you. This site and all the amazing people I have had the opportunity to share this beautiful openness with has become very important to me and I just want to say, no one is happy all the time, the world can and will suck sometimes, and that is okay. Please take care of yourself first and allow others to help when you can’t.