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cool stuff!!!

music school is ok. the more you know the more you can express yourself in the real world. it's no waste.

experience is important too, so do both

pretty wild stuff. good luck with it all. just let you know i am back also. haven't posted in awhile. (neither have you, tsk tsk). later!

the nurse outfit is always a classic...my fantasy outfit???? i'd be wolverine having a threesome w/ storm and jean grey

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Oh my gosh!!! that's EXACTLY what i tell MY girlfriends.. or girls that are friends.. that if they have their own thing going? like if they go read at a coffee house or for a walk or whatever it is they'd like to do... that's SOO attractive to a guy! and THAT guy would come up to a girl to talk (if nothing else) because he finds it hott.. then.. isn't THAT the kind of guy a girl would want? not so shy, talks to people to ACTUALLY talk and not just get drunk at a bar and slur at a girl hoping she has sex with him... *sighs* hehe! ok, that's it. that's all i got... have fun darlin'! goodnight..morning...whatever.....byebyebye!

you can't do anything, you can't tell her anything, show her anything. she is gonna do want she wants, bottom line. everybody has a different path to follow. you happen to be the group that feel a certain establishment of self is needed before a commitment to another is priority. a friend of mine got married and had two kids way too young. he is now in the process of a divorce and is 25. everybody needs to learn life lessons their own way. if you are her friend you will just be their. when she asks your opinion, be honest, but it is your opinion. you can't argue with someone that is in love. it sucks but it is the truth. be there for her happiness, but you wll also be there for her sadness. who knows... you might meet your soul mate (if they exist) tomorrow.

Society dictates that women, to be, (shall I dare say it) yes
Subservient to the whims, (as in- (good or bad, right / wrong, race, religion creed, color) of man. In other words to be: Bare foot and pregnant. Little girls are given dolls and baby dolls to dictate what they should have and, to be in this life, you can, also add: want / looks, to that list.
All I can say to you is, if you cherished that friendship since, 2nd grade then, you probable knew what she really wanted as in (the words she never spoke / the in complete sentences she never finished.) weather you knew or not!

This is what her, heart / mind feels, right / wrong, this is the way she wants to live / experience life.
Sounds like you are scared, that the friendship will change / end.
The change is inevitable. The END on the other hand if, you keep forcing / telling her that this is not for you (her), then yes it will END probable, faster then you think / feel.

1=Are you right about women not having to need man, YES.
2=A women should not be dependant on a man / a man should not be dependant on a women, -that depends on what you constitute as, dependant on / in. (shades of gray there)
Answer to 2=If dependant on: as in-me man, you women I make the money, you dont / not allowed to. Then: YES, god YES, you are right.
3=That women are way more attractive when they can function in life on their own, then with patients and compromise women, can work you into their daily routine. YES, but with an explanation. This goes too deep to write about.

I agree with what you are saying. Has she even had time to devrlop into the person she really is ? Or is she just doing this to feel like she thinks she should. I also believe that women who can handle things on ther own are far more attractive.

BCH

you gotta give us things to comment on! tell us about what you are doin! well you kinda did... hm... okay i will think of something. lator gator.

You got the Foo Fighters listed, ever been at a concert? I'm thinking about it.. They are on tour in Europe ...

weeeeeeeeeeeeeee.... hawken. i friend in hoboken, no wait, maybe it is weehawken. anyway well to SG i am new as well and was looking for people around the nyc area. so there you are. well have great new year. love peace and chicken grease.