So I have an ear infection and I need to take drops. Thanks goodness that was all it was, i was worried that i was going to be permanently deaf. I know, I know hypocondriac or however you spell that!
Last night I bumped into the general manager and instead of running off before he saw me like I did on Friday I waved hello at him, then he came and had a "chat" with me about why I was leaving. I was honest, he was sad and angry, that i hadn't gone to him to sort out and the fact that bullying happens under his roof. He spoke to the head chef and assured me that he wouldn't know it was me he was talking about and then lo and behold about 1/2 an hour after the GM leaves the head chef wants a word with me. they've both asked me to reconsider and the HC has said that if I leave because of him he'll feel like a shit. Well I'm not going to stay just so his conscience is clear, but I did say I'd reconsider but I haven't I'm still going. I can't cope with it all and I don't think I should have to. My time there has come to an abrupt end and hopefully by me leaving it will mean that there will be a big slap in the face for the mean people.
However now I need to tell the GM my decision tonight and I'm not one for little chats so i might cry at him, we'll see.
Last night I bumped into the general manager and instead of running off before he saw me like I did on Friday I waved hello at him, then he came and had a "chat" with me about why I was leaving. I was honest, he was sad and angry, that i hadn't gone to him to sort out and the fact that bullying happens under his roof. He spoke to the head chef and assured me that he wouldn't know it was me he was talking about and then lo and behold about 1/2 an hour after the GM leaves the head chef wants a word with me. they've both asked me to reconsider and the HC has said that if I leave because of him he'll feel like a shit. Well I'm not going to stay just so his conscience is clear, but I did say I'd reconsider but I haven't I'm still going. I can't cope with it all and I don't think I should have to. My time there has come to an abrupt end and hopefully by me leaving it will mean that there will be a big slap in the face for the mean people.
However now I need to tell the GM my decision tonight and I'm not one for little chats so i might cry at him, we'll see.
fry:
Good luck with your chat, you're totally right to not go back as I doubt anything will change.