It's funny how quickly things can change.... how the meaning of something already so powerful can surpass itself. How the phrase Will you marry me can hit you so hard and delightfully make the ring that was his, that you've cherished and protected as a promise ring, becomes so much more, becomes quite simply, an engagement ring.
Yesterday was my 21st birthday.... at midnight whilst laying on the couch trying not to pass out just yet, using max as a pillow, he made me get up, sit up anyway, and sitting leaning into me, he took his ring off my finger, I asked why cause i'm so bloody used to it always being on me now. His response.... Because it's going to be your ring now... Will you marry me? I said yes just for the record.
So all in all... an amazing birthday. My first good one actually. normally there is a lot of shit that happens and the day is terrible so i try to ignore it the best i can. He took me to see Meet The Robinsons (actually we accidentally walked into the reaping first... saw all the new previews... there is one really cool movie coming out soon.... about a haunted hotel room... written by steven king... i so can't wait for that one!!!) and that was so good. plus the movie starts with a classic disney short
We got pizza and alcohol, rented movies and spent most of the night doing that. Best birthday ever. Just wanted to share that. Laterz all.
Upate: I'm trying to be happy right now but it's hard... i told my mom... she went silent and then changed the subject... max told his friends.... all but one of his female friends are against it... only one is happy for us.. One said she was pissed at him for even fucking thinking of asking me to be his wife but it's his life, and she's happy for him only. It's very likely she will tell his family (which he asked her not to do because he hates them). The rest of them are not talking to him because they hate me and think he's making the biggest mistake of his life. It's been a very long afternoon.Max says he doesn't care what they think.... which is really true otherwise he would have left me a long time ago when they first tried guilting him into it. And wanna know the really fucked up thing about it.... I've NEVER MET ANY OF THEM! They don't even fuckin know me. One did... and she hated me because she was kinda in love with max but he never felt that way for her... Anywayz... i'm going to go bake cupcakes cause i need something to do... to take my mind off this shit.... and max wants cupcakes for some odd reason. Ok bye for now
Yesterday was my 21st birthday.... at midnight whilst laying on the couch trying not to pass out just yet, using max as a pillow, he made me get up, sit up anyway, and sitting leaning into me, he took his ring off my finger, I asked why cause i'm so bloody used to it always being on me now. His response.... Because it's going to be your ring now... Will you marry me? I said yes just for the record.
So all in all... an amazing birthday. My first good one actually. normally there is a lot of shit that happens and the day is terrible so i try to ignore it the best i can. He took me to see Meet The Robinsons (actually we accidentally walked into the reaping first... saw all the new previews... there is one really cool movie coming out soon.... about a haunted hotel room... written by steven king... i so can't wait for that one!!!) and that was so good. plus the movie starts with a classic disney short
We got pizza and alcohol, rented movies and spent most of the night doing that. Best birthday ever. Just wanted to share that. Laterz all.
Upate: I'm trying to be happy right now but it's hard... i told my mom... she went silent and then changed the subject... max told his friends.... all but one of his female friends are against it... only one is happy for us.. One said she was pissed at him for even fucking thinking of asking me to be his wife but it's his life, and she's happy for him only. It's very likely she will tell his family (which he asked her not to do because he hates them). The rest of them are not talking to him because they hate me and think he's making the biggest mistake of his life. It's been a very long afternoon.Max says he doesn't care what they think.... which is really true otherwise he would have left me a long time ago when they first tried guilting him into it. And wanna know the really fucked up thing about it.... I've NEVER MET ANY OF THEM! They don't even fuckin know me. One did... and she hated me because she was kinda in love with max but he never felt that way for her... Anywayz... i'm going to go bake cupcakes cause i need something to do... to take my mind off this shit.... and max wants cupcakes for some odd reason. Ok bye for now
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND CONGRATS!!!