Oh, boy, my crush is getting bad. Three years have gone by, and periodically this person & I meet and exchange knowing glances, but never speak. Thursday I finally bit the bullet and wrote to him, and he wrote back right away. It was the first real exchange we ever had. He complimented me, so I wrote him back and thanked him. That was Thursday evening and still no response. Either A) my response got lost B) his reponse got lost or C) he just never responded. How annoying!
In any case, I'm now wondering what my next course of action should be. This is not the kind of man to initiate anything (with girls, at least). In fact, it's entirely possible that he himself is A) gay B) married/with girlfriend C) snobby or D) all of the above. But I still feel compelled to know him, at least, in some sense.
On another note, last night was a combination Halloween/birthday party for a friend of a friend. I arrived right after a seemy suburban baby shower, threw on a beard and tiara, and turned myself into, you guessed it, the Bearded Lady. Though now, looking at the one picture I have, I think I look more like a Fidel Castro...
In any case, I'm now wondering what my next course of action should be. This is not the kind of man to initiate anything (with girls, at least). In fact, it's entirely possible that he himself is A) gay B) married/with girlfriend C) snobby or D) all of the above. But I still feel compelled to know him, at least, in some sense.
On another note, last night was a combination Halloween/birthday party for a friend of a friend. I arrived right after a seemy suburban baby shower, threw on a beard and tiara, and turned myself into, you guessed it, the Bearded Lady. Though now, looking at the one picture I have, I think I look more like a Fidel Castro...
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As to your crush I say fling him another, non-related email. If he doesn't respond, then perhaps you know it may not be in the cards. That will most likely suck, but not knowing can suck even worse.
Way past its expiration date.
Clean the fridge. Move on.