I am joining a convent!! A convent where I can still be naked whenever I want.. but a convent none-the-less...
Here's the deal: (It's pretty long.. I feel the need to vent)
Back in April I lay eyes on a completly gorgeous guy. He's a new athlete where I train. We say hi in passing when we see each other. (And because he's a super hot new guy everyone is talking about him and I find out his name.) He appears to be (and according to everyone that comes in contact with him IS) the nicest most polite genuine guy on the face of the planet.
Fast forward to July; and I finally gather the nerve to go talk to him; introduce myself; you know if nothing else become more then that random wrstler girl that always says hi.
So we hit it off; and I mean the guy couldn't be any awesomer. I leave for almost two weeks to coach a Junior National Team. But we talk on the phone a lot and make plans for dinner at some point when I get back.
The night I get back he calls me and asks if I want to meet up at the neighborhood dive bar w/ him and a couple of the guys. I say yes of course (I love dive bars.. this one is my favorite of all time) Have fun being silly and all. You know; drinking a bit. 3 days later we make dinner plans.
Go to dinner. Have the MOST spectacular evening. I mean; he opened the car door for me; waited for me to sit down before he did. Listened when I was talking; and had genuine interest in my life. A-MaZe-ING He gave me the sweetest kiss good night; didnt try to maul me. It was great. We go out again a couple nights later. Meet some friends at a bar his buddies tease him about me throughout the nigh; sit and talk the whole night; not holding hands or really cuddling; but sitting close enough that peole can tell we are together.
He takes me home and on the way tells me that his X will be at the competition (she is competing too). That they broke up because of the distance; and he doesn't know what or if anything will happen. They haven't seen each other in months. But that he wanted to let me know she was going to be there. He also told me how much he liked spending time with me and that he was glad we had gotten closer. Gives me an even better kiss good night. Gives me his keys (we had been playing x-box.. Call to Duty.. and I had been getting rocked.. so I was supposed to practice the week he was gone).
So; he leaves; competes; sends me a message telling me that he isnt coming back as planned; he is going back east to visit his family for a few days. I say ok; no worries. A couple days pass and I call and leave a message asking when he is getting hom cause I was thinking of making dinner for him and wanted to plan it.
4 hours later I ge a text that says "My girlfriend doesn't appreciate you texting me."
WHAT THE FUCK??
So I call and there is no answer and I leave a message asking what I did to deserve such a harsh text and that there are other ways he could have let me know what was up; but I wont bother him any more.
The next day I get a text; from him; that says "I'm sorry for dragging you into all his; I would totally understand if you ignored my presence. I think you are a really nice person. My life is mesier then I would like to acknowledge."
And that's the last I have heard. I am wondering if he maybe got back with thegirl and she sent the text. Or maybe they didnt get back together and were just hanging out and she sent it.
It's totally out of character for him.. I am just SOO confused and trying to hold back my anger until he gets back and can tell me what the hell happened.
I am especially mad because I spent 10 hours working on a drawing for this guy (had already started it before we went out; just cause I thought his idea was neat and I really wanted to put it down on paper) If I had the drawing I'd be ok with it. but I left it at his place because I thought he'd apprciate it. mad
Anyone have any insight maybe?
Do I just bring out the worst in people?
Taban
Here's the deal: (It's pretty long.. I feel the need to vent)
Back in April I lay eyes on a completly gorgeous guy. He's a new athlete where I train. We say hi in passing when we see each other. (And because he's a super hot new guy everyone is talking about him and I find out his name.) He appears to be (and according to everyone that comes in contact with him IS) the nicest most polite genuine guy on the face of the planet.
Fast forward to July; and I finally gather the nerve to go talk to him; introduce myself; you know if nothing else become more then that random wrstler girl that always says hi.
So we hit it off; and I mean the guy couldn't be any awesomer. I leave for almost two weeks to coach a Junior National Team. But we talk on the phone a lot and make plans for dinner at some point when I get back.
The night I get back he calls me and asks if I want to meet up at the neighborhood dive bar w/ him and a couple of the guys. I say yes of course (I love dive bars.. this one is my favorite of all time) Have fun being silly and all. You know; drinking a bit. 3 days later we make dinner plans.
Go to dinner. Have the MOST spectacular evening. I mean; he opened the car door for me; waited for me to sit down before he did. Listened when I was talking; and had genuine interest in my life. A-MaZe-ING He gave me the sweetest kiss good night; didnt try to maul me. It was great. We go out again a couple nights later. Meet some friends at a bar his buddies tease him about me throughout the nigh; sit and talk the whole night; not holding hands or really cuddling; but sitting close enough that peole can tell we are together.
He takes me home and on the way tells me that his X will be at the competition (she is competing too). That they broke up because of the distance; and he doesn't know what or if anything will happen. They haven't seen each other in months. But that he wanted to let me know she was going to be there. He also told me how much he liked spending time with me and that he was glad we had gotten closer. Gives me an even better kiss good night. Gives me his keys (we had been playing x-box.. Call to Duty.. and I had been getting rocked.. so I was supposed to practice the week he was gone).
So; he leaves; competes; sends me a message telling me that he isnt coming back as planned; he is going back east to visit his family for a few days. I say ok; no worries. A couple days pass and I call and leave a message asking when he is getting hom cause I was thinking of making dinner for him and wanted to plan it.
4 hours later I ge a text that says "My girlfriend doesn't appreciate you texting me."
WHAT THE FUCK??
So I call and there is no answer and I leave a message asking what I did to deserve such a harsh text and that there are other ways he could have let me know what was up; but I wont bother him any more.
The next day I get a text; from him; that says "I'm sorry for dragging you into all his; I would totally understand if you ignored my presence. I think you are a really nice person. My life is mesier then I would like to acknowledge."
And that's the last I have heard. I am wondering if he maybe got back with thegirl and she sent the text. Or maybe they didnt get back together and were just hanging out and she sent it.
It's totally out of character for him.. I am just SOO confused and trying to hold back my anger until he gets back and can tell me what the hell happened.
I am especially mad because I spent 10 hours working on a drawing for this guy (had already started it before we went out; just cause I thought his idea was neat and I really wanted to put it down on paper) If I had the drawing I'd be ok with it. but I left it at his place because I thought he'd apprciate it. mad
Anyone have any insight maybe?
Do I just bring out the worst in people?
Taban
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But, before you freak stress about it, which is all but impossible prolly at this point, just wait until he gets back to get his keys and ask him what the deal is.
Thing to prolly remember is that if things are getting hairy this quick in the game, you should be really careful and rethink things.
Good luck.
Oh and that last line is just you degrading yourself. Stop it. You don't bring out the worst in people. He really liked you, youre very pretty, nice, you sound like a pretty good girlfriend, and to top it off a bad ass wrestler. It is most likely that he is just a mess as he says and so is his exgirlfriend/girlfriend.