i am having one of the worst weeks ever.
I'm sick, my birthday blew, my aunt is in the hospital because a muscle behind her eye collapsed, giving her loss of sight in one of her eyes due to diabetes and her being incredibly overweight.
I go out with my friend tonight to just chill and try to catch up on things and we get to talking about this boy i know and how he likes her and now that she is single she says that it would've been a possiblity, we talked about how goodlooking he is and she said that she liked him before he grew his hair higher. She hasn't seen him in forever and we then talked about the naughty things she and i would do to him if given the chance and how exactly it would happen.
When we part, i IM him from my phone to tell him about how this girl he thinks is hot said that he was a possibility now that she's single and i said something along the lines of "she thought you were a possiblity before the big hair" meaning when he was in training and his hair was cut short, she has a thing for shorthaired girls. I thought he'd take it as a compliment, thinking "oooh, this hot girl thought i was cute and sees me as a possiblity for a hookup now that she is single" but instead he focused on the big hair comment and took it completely personally and totally the wrong way. He took it as an insult to his looks and a "backhanded comment" He refuses to even speak to me and said I should think before I convey msgs.
I adore this kid so much, I consider him to be one of my better friends, I think he's hot, sensitive, funny, intelligent, just an all around cool guy, and it hurts me to think that i hurt him, but at the same time, he didn't give me a chance to explain, and i was txting him from a cellphone, meaning i couldn't type quickly and get my words out before he had made up his mind to not speak to me.
I wish he'd understand that i meant nothing but good stuff from telling him this, and that nobody i know thinks his appearance is anything less than good-looking (usually more like cute and hot).
This hurts so much, to know that i hurt him.
I'm sick, my birthday blew, my aunt is in the hospital because a muscle behind her eye collapsed, giving her loss of sight in one of her eyes due to diabetes and her being incredibly overweight.
I go out with my friend tonight to just chill and try to catch up on things and we get to talking about this boy i know and how he likes her and now that she is single she says that it would've been a possiblity, we talked about how goodlooking he is and she said that she liked him before he grew his hair higher. She hasn't seen him in forever and we then talked about the naughty things she and i would do to him if given the chance and how exactly it would happen.
When we part, i IM him from my phone to tell him about how this girl he thinks is hot said that he was a possibility now that she's single and i said something along the lines of "she thought you were a possiblity before the big hair" meaning when he was in training and his hair was cut short, she has a thing for shorthaired girls. I thought he'd take it as a compliment, thinking "oooh, this hot girl thought i was cute and sees me as a possiblity for a hookup now that she is single" but instead he focused on the big hair comment and took it completely personally and totally the wrong way. He took it as an insult to his looks and a "backhanded comment" He refuses to even speak to me and said I should think before I convey msgs.
I adore this kid so much, I consider him to be one of my better friends, I think he's hot, sensitive, funny, intelligent, just an all around cool guy, and it hurts me to think that i hurt him, but at the same time, he didn't give me a chance to explain, and i was txting him from a cellphone, meaning i couldn't type quickly and get my words out before he had made up his mind to not speak to me.
I wish he'd understand that i meant nothing but good stuff from telling him this, and that nobody i know thinks his appearance is anything less than good-looking (usually more like cute and hot).
This hurts so much, to know that i hurt him.
othello:
That's pretty harsh on his part to STOP TALKING to you over a misunderstanding. I've forgiven far worse, and most of my friends have forgiven far worse from me. People need to stop taking themselves so seriously, life passes you right by and you end up too mad to notice it's going on without you.
opahl:
Yeah... I think he's overreacting a little. He'll come around. Don't worry about it.