This is a conversation I had. Who the girl is doesn't matter. But what matters is mainly what i say, and the one response this girl has after I ask her the question. You will notice it... hell I will even point it out. It will be in one of these things ( example ).
Me (9:59:08 PM): You're a princess right?
Girl (9:58:53 PM): lol?
Me (9:59:34 PM): do you think you are or not?
Girl (9:59:29 PM): sure
Me (10:00:29 PM): And why do you think you deserve that treatment or title?
Girl (10:01:18 PM): lol. y?
Me (10:03:10 PM): Its a fairly straightforward question. What about you, or what have you done, or what kind of person are you to where you think you deserve that treatment?
Me (10:03:36 PM): Why am I asking... because I find it interesting for a few reasons.
Me (10:05:55 PM): I am all for treating a girl really good, but when you think about it. You treat this girl like she is a princess... and why? She hasnt proven anything... she hasn't shown she actually cares? She could be a complete bitch for all you know who cheats... and uses... So... why then do you just automatically treat this girl like a princess?
Me (10:06:29 PM): I could see just basically being nice, and whatnot. Paying for basic stuff, and all that jazz.
Girl (10:06:08 PM): cause she is a girl. (There it is people. The reason why girls deserve to be treated like princesses.)
Me (10:06:53 PM): Maybe awhile ago that made sense... but because she is a girl? Thats it?
Me (10:09:01 PM): Ive known more guys that was with a girl that they treated like a princess, and she was a complete waste. And hell I know girls that I wouldn't even so much as give the time of day to....
Yet just because they are a girl they deserved to be treated like a princess.
So basically... girls don't have to treat guys any way just because they are guys off the bat... but guys have to treat girls like they are princess simply because of gender.
Me (10:17:17 PM): Its a double standard. Guys are expect to be completely fine with blindly treating someone like they are everything with no justification for that...
And a girl isn't expected to do anything outside expect to be treated special until they feel like what? They got enough out of the guy? They made him their pet? What? I mean... where is the justification for it?
There is none.
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Alright. So I was sitting around, and this thought hit my mind. And it honestly really bothered me. It just didn't make any sense.
Now... I definitely have no problem treating a girl that deserves it as though she is the world. I definitely would give everything I reasonably could for a girl that deserves to be treated like a "princess" but... otherwise why should I? Sure yeah... pay for a date, and treat her nice... okay. But if you expect something more outside of that without giving me reason. No thanks. Just on that alone you've proven you are nothing more than a typical girl with nothing special to you.
Me (9:59:08 PM): You're a princess right?
Girl (9:58:53 PM): lol?
Me (9:59:34 PM): do you think you are or not?
Girl (9:59:29 PM): sure
Me (10:00:29 PM): And why do you think you deserve that treatment or title?
Girl (10:01:18 PM): lol. y?
Me (10:03:10 PM): Its a fairly straightforward question. What about you, or what have you done, or what kind of person are you to where you think you deserve that treatment?
Me (10:03:36 PM): Why am I asking... because I find it interesting for a few reasons.
Me (10:05:55 PM): I am all for treating a girl really good, but when you think about it. You treat this girl like she is a princess... and why? She hasnt proven anything... she hasn't shown she actually cares? She could be a complete bitch for all you know who cheats... and uses... So... why then do you just automatically treat this girl like a princess?
Me (10:06:29 PM): I could see just basically being nice, and whatnot. Paying for basic stuff, and all that jazz.
Girl (10:06:08 PM): cause she is a girl. (There it is people. The reason why girls deserve to be treated like princesses.)
Me (10:06:53 PM): Maybe awhile ago that made sense... but because she is a girl? Thats it?
Me (10:09:01 PM): Ive known more guys that was with a girl that they treated like a princess, and she was a complete waste. And hell I know girls that I wouldn't even so much as give the time of day to....
Yet just because they are a girl they deserved to be treated like a princess.
So basically... girls don't have to treat guys any way just because they are guys off the bat... but guys have to treat girls like they are princess simply because of gender.
Me (10:17:17 PM): Its a double standard. Guys are expect to be completely fine with blindly treating someone like they are everything with no justification for that...
And a girl isn't expected to do anything outside expect to be treated special until they feel like what? They got enough out of the guy? They made him their pet? What? I mean... where is the justification for it?
There is none.
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Alright. So I was sitting around, and this thought hit my mind. And it honestly really bothered me. It just didn't make any sense.
Now... I definitely have no problem treating a girl that deserves it as though she is the world. I definitely would give everything I reasonably could for a girl that deserves to be treated like a "princess" but... otherwise why should I? Sure yeah... pay for a date, and treat her nice... okay. But if you expect something more outside of that without giving me reason. No thanks. Just on that alone you've proven you are nothing more than a typical girl with nothing special to you.
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Love,
Annika