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I used to freely offer my ears/thoughts to about anyone.

Figured someone out there has to listen to people issues, and perhaps be able to help them.

I did this for quite a long time. Helping those that are unsure to become sure. Yada yada.

Then I all of a sudden started to think on it. Why am I doing this?

These were my reasons:

+ I can help those who might have no one to help them
+ Helping someone positively makes me feel good
+ Perhaps the things I learned in life could help someone else

I came to the conclusion that although that its actually not worth it.

9/10 these people just keep doing the same thing.

They want help yet they don't know how to take advice, and apply it.

Their issues continue on, and get worse. They don't understand why, and just in general can't figure it out.

Ive grown to really dislike these people.

You've caused your problem to get worse by not doing something about it.
You let it manifest itself into this big problem that you can't control anymore, and you continue asking other for help.

Its not going to change!!!

You let it get this bad... Now you are the only one that can change it.

I just in general don't care to help people anyone.

Why waste time helping someone who doesn't listen?

There are VERY few people Id care to assist anymore.

Either way. Ive noticed that when people start talking about their problems hoping for a listening ear that I tend to either

1) walk away
2) laugh
or
3) ask why they are bothering


Stupidness.

Here are some questions/things I get that people want answers for:

(What college should I go to?)

Well. Id say the one that would get you someone further in life, but what do I know. Go to the school you think you will have more fun at, and once you realize money went down the drain because no one wants to hire you over that more qualified person from the higher ranked school then you can cry about how you messed up. Just don't cry in my direction I will only make you realize how stupid you really are.

(My boyfriend cheated on me... what should I do?)

Initially I would ask for you to get your tubes tied because Id feel bad for the world I.Q when you have a baby that eventually like you will be to stupid to know obvious solutions to life problems. After that Id suggest you stay with him because if you are to stupid to drop him without thought Id not wish any other man good or bad the misfortune of being with an idiot. Thanks. Goodbye.

(I wish I could stop drinking... what do you suggest?)

I suggest you shut up. Listen I understand you are too weak to stop, and more than likely won't anyways because you rely on it for your social life. Hell you will more than likely meet your future child support paying ex-husband on one of your drunken escapades. Your child will grow up distorted, and angry while you go between this guy, and that guy for who knows how long. The way I see it you are essentially the equal to the white trash that lives next door to me. I have to admit. I feel bad for you. You will have a shitty car.

(I hate my job... what should I do?)

Shut the fuck up, and get a new one. Its not that hard. Chances are you won't quit your job though. You are more than likely one of those people who can't quit something familiar. You are in this comfort zone where you can go throughout your day with little to no effort to complete the simple tasks asked of you. Though you "hate" your job you subconciously married it once you had to stop trying. Its okay though... I am sure when you are 36 that you will hold a managerial position, and be making $11.75 an hour to look over the dumbasses working under you.

(I am unsatisfied with my body size... any clue as to what I can do?)

*There are a couple different situations here*

Skinny girl w/ nice body - Alright. You can go to a doctor because you are more than likely ill, and need help.

Average girl w/ alright body - Work out would be a start. You really have nothing to be ashamed of. Average body isnt bad, but if you want to tone up go hit the gym, and tone up.

Fat girl w/ a body or two - You already know the answer. Why ask? You know very well you need to work out. Cut out the crazy amounts of horrible stuff you eat.
*For the very few who honestly can't help your size. Accept it, and just try to love yourself as much as you can. You've been dealt a shitty hand... deal with it. Unless you have a lot of money nothing will change.

(I don't know what to do... you decide)

Alright. Just a far warning here. If I tolerate this... it means I more than likely care about you enough to accept it... though eventually it will annoy the fuck out of me, and I will tell you to fucking start making your mind up.

As for everyone else.

I have something for you to do. Grow up. You will have to start making your decisions someone. If you don't then you are lucky, and more than likely will be hated by anyone who has to make an honest living because you skate by life never making an honest decision for yourself.

Chances are I might give you a time or two of these "I don't know. You decide" situations. Any more than that and I dislike you. Go become mature, and stop relying on everyone else.




I am getting all pissed off over here realizing even more so how unreliable, and dull people tend to be.

Every single day there seems to be one more reason to believe people are worthless whether its a random person or someone I know.

Ive come to realize that the chances of me mating with an intelligent, attractive, funny, mature girl becomes less, and less possible as time goes on.

This more than likely has to do with my unreasonable standards for someone as undesirable as myself, but hey... I have to be unrealistic somewhere in my life. Might as well be that.