Here are a full examples:
1) my penis is a sacred contract.
2) if we ever go to an event or like when my parents take me to the fair, I will need to lay down and meditate for half an hour with my gospel music... not in a closet either, ...where people could see me.
3) when we drive, I can only drive familiar places and for a short amount of time, and when you drive I get carsick so we have to pull over often so I can get myself feeling stable.
4) i have a horrible sleep condition, so if I need to be awake and I am not already, you would need to say something to wake me, and turn on the tv, and watch in relaxed way... and it may help if you gentle pat my shoulder and say casual conversation.
5) if we go to the movies we bring a blanket and I sit in the handicap spot because I feel much more at ease on the floor. You could sit with me as an pleasing option but if not it would be cool if you sit beside and above me. It would be cool for me... π₯°π¦πΉ
I am sure there are more things like this, and many of them involve not being ashamed of my needs. Like how I need five seats in church for laying down and then propping my head on my hand and elbow, if I am going to enjoy the service.
I am not weird. I do what feels natural... πβ€οΈπ