suzy_kabloozy

Hey, don't count the Hell's Angels out, but don't give up on nice guys either. There are a few of us out here! Mutual friend the_cheat directed me here. You take care and if you need an objective ear to bend, let me know.

Have a great weekend!!

bb

Gee, I just don't like the sound of "...fix me up with someone...." Makes it seem like some kind of surgery or repair. It also sounds forced and therefore contrived.

Don't spend your time placing blame on someone, or dwelling on the bad side of a person or relationship. What you focus on expands. For example, if you keep thinking negative things, negativity will increase. Same with positive thoughts. So, instead, send them love and wish them well, even if you do it silently. Then, having taken ownership of your life once again, move forward.

Last time I wrote you I think I may have referred to detaching from outcomes. Your present situation is no different. Just create the intention, such as meeting the right kind of man, and then let go. Don't keep thinking "Will I meet someone? Is he out there? Why am I alone?" etc. Just trust in the universe that there is someone out there for you, and then patiently wait for synchronicity to occur.

Seriously.

Operating from a position of detachment will increase the likelihood of positive manifestation.

whats Hello Sexy Girl? regardless it sounds fuckin awesome and i am so there! let's hang out soon

xo
mary

Take a walk in the sunlight. It helps me.

Blah. I read that whole thing, allz I have to say is, "SHIIIIiiiiTTtt...."

So um...Can I kiss your scratches and make them better?

I'm sorry you had to go through all that. I unfortunately used to really like a tweaker who had a lot of tweaker friends as well...But I was never in a situation like that. Ah well, I guess what I'm trying to say is that really sucks. However, don't let it get ya down.

There is always tomorrow, and someone as beautiful (inside and out) as you deserves a much better guy, situation, and sort of treatment in general.

My advice is to just ignore him for a while, and focus on yourself. Treat yourself by taking a bubble bath, give yourself something luxorious. Go out with friends. Do anything to make sure that you point out to him that you deserve so much better. If he doesn't get the hint and start shaping his sorry ass up, then forget about that loser.

*whew*

Rant done. Sorry to make you read all that. lol

Lotso lovin!

T.C.

[Edited on Jan 25, 2005 2:07PM]

well the house im buying has a big ass front and back yard, fenced in, guess house, shead, 3 bedroom, 1 bath, dinning room, kitchen, living room, the guess house has 1 bath, 1 bed, living room and kitchen. its gonna cost like 49,000 which is not bad at all. the other houses around rock as well.

I have often wondered in my life why I have attracted the wrong people. It is only recently that I came to the realization that it was the energy I was giving off. For example, if I was feeling dangerous or reckless, that energy I projected attracted others with similar feelings.

As well, I've learned to become detached from outcomes. In other words, I don't focus on what the end result of my actions might be. This doesn't mean I act irresponsibly, it simply means I put my trust in the universe.

I wish you well!

[Edited on Jan 22, 2005 10:50AM]

I always seem to be attracted to the wrong type of girl too. It's scary how you can really really know anyone, even after years of being around them. Even people I think I know really well never cease to surprise me, usually in a bad way. Oh well... I've come to expect it now. Sorry about all the shit going on in your life

yeah this time of year is SHIT for money! wish I had a car can I borrow yours on my day off? explorers, are they BIG cars? I can't imagine having loads of people at my house. It's just me myself and I! Loadsa space

[Edited on Jan 16, 2005 8:57PM]

Yay! You still have a job!

HEY----

Yeah, I know we are the same age so i really shouldn't count you in my observations, but I do. it seems you are in the same boat as a lot of the other SG's. Trust me, but by the grace of god go i. I could have been there myself. I tried to walk away from the job two years ago, and changed my mind at the last minute. I fear that with a 700.00 a month child support i would have been in the same boat. (living paycheck to paycheck) of course i have to be a whore to them man. I wish you could rescue me. you seem like a lot of fun. I'd by a drink or two ..or 9. of course you know i'm drug free because of the job. problem? Thank for caring enough to reply though. Stay cool...stay alive.


OUT!!!!!

More smilies than frowns is always a good thing!

[Edited on Jan 13, 2005 8:43AM]

I'm sorry you had such I crappy time. At least you enjoyed your son's b-day.

I hope your day got better. *hug* I think there's a bad case of the Mondays going around.

probably not an issue until it begins to interfere with other portions of your life. until then, climb on and enjoy the hormonal ride

Sounds normal to me. Most people won't admit (at least publicly) that sex is on the brain probably (guesstimated) about 80% or more during a 24 hour period. The answer is simple you like sex, nothing wrong with that. I think where something becomes an addiction (it doesn't matter if it's sex, smoking, drinking, eating, buying stuff, etc.) if it greatly impairs your capacity to make rational decisions and hurts you and those around you, especially those you love, and you can't stop the behavior that's causing the problem. That's addiction.

It doesn't sound like addiction to me. Keep having fun.

Take care.

thanks for the words. I remain optimistic. I have lots of great friends so that helps.

p.s. your postings on the oral group are freaking HOT! those cheer me up.

cute pictures