i've always wanted to be close to my sister. i've tried, but we're just too different or something. she never talks to me. i was th elast person to find out that she's pregnant. my cousin (my marriage, not even by blood) was there with her when she found out. my other cousin found out shortly afterwards. then more recently my grandmother, my aunt, all my other cousins, my parents, my brothers, my sister in law, my other grandparents, and then finally me. i want to be there for her, but she wont let me. for 5 months she lied. and then of course she picks the name that i wanted to name my daughter when i have one. but that's really neither here nor there cuz she didnt know, it's just kinda annoying. whatever. it doesnt really matter how i feel about this. it's just up to her. and she is taking care of herself and going to the doctor and all that, so its not like she even needs me. i'm only her big sister.
sliggy:
She may not need you now, But she will always want you there, and I am sure you will always be there for her. There might still be a time to come when she will need you. When the baby comes, she will need all the help she can get, especially if she will remain a single parent. Why do you think the two of you are not close? I am glad that she is taking care of herself, though. That's a good thing at least.