I'm going to Spain! Toledo to be exact... for 5 weeks.
It's a short little stay but I'm super excited! I'm taking 2 spanish classes and i'll be living with a Spanish family. I don't know if I'd have the ovaries for it if it were a whole semester. I want more than anything to become a lot more fluent while i'm there and hey, maybe visiting Europe will loosen me up and i'll finally submit a set?
Also... the boyfriend.
we've been together for almost two years now and i'm starting to get the itch. I've got a huge crush on this one chick and i'm not sure if i can keep it in my pants. I want soo much to not be the stereotypical bi chick who can't commit. I would never want to be a cheater but at the same time, when i find myself less and less attracted to men, what am i suposed to do? i've done the whole threesome thing and it ended badly. i just prefer sex when it's a private and intimate moment.
how exactly do you ask someone for an open relationship? i have no idea what the script for that convo would look like.
opinions?
It's a short little stay but I'm super excited! I'm taking 2 spanish classes and i'll be living with a Spanish family. I don't know if I'd have the ovaries for it if it were a whole semester. I want more than anything to become a lot more fluent while i'm there and hey, maybe visiting Europe will loosen me up and i'll finally submit a set?
Also... the boyfriend.
we've been together for almost two years now and i'm starting to get the itch. I've got a huge crush on this one chick and i'm not sure if i can keep it in my pants. I want soo much to not be the stereotypical bi chick who can't commit. I would never want to be a cheater but at the same time, when i find myself less and less attracted to men, what am i suposed to do? i've done the whole threesome thing and it ended badly. i just prefer sex when it's a private and intimate moment.
how exactly do you ask someone for an open relationship? i have no idea what the script for that convo would look like.
opinions?
It takes me far less than two years to get the itch, crushing on new girls all the time... but I just make sure I don't put myself into situations where it becomes an issue. New pussy is great, but it's also not worth throwing away something I've taken a long time to build. Healthy fantasy will have to do.
Open relationships seem like a powder keg to me, and I generally find that out of those people in them, one person is a lot happier with it than the other. That said, I've known some people who make it work very well.