its almost more fun to plot out what you want to do. and it always gets so creative. sometimes i'm sad i never went through with any of my ideas, but then again i sure do not need any bad carma....
oh and killing with kindness it so great cause no matter how annoyed they get they always look like the asshole.
I think you are being the better person about this whole thing though, and his karma is gonna get totally screwed, not yours now
oh and killing with kindness it so great cause no matter how annoyed they get they always look like the asshole.