Well I lost my job on feb 10 and just didn't want to admit to it! It was so awesome being unemployed! Yeah right, I haven't had a pay check in 6 weeks, and let me tell you mortgage companies and car loan companies really like getting paid every month and if you don't they get pissed! But I am working again now, started this past week on Tuesday! Thank god! So now the great catch up begins to pay them back. Just let me tell you how lucky I am to have a wife that doesn't help me even one bit when it comes to paying the bills! Grant it I've always made enough money so that she hasn't had to work so for the past 8 years she's been sitting on her ass. But come on now! I think it's about time to lend a hand and help me out. Last time I checked this is her house. Its got all her shit in it and it's the one that I had, just had to buy her so that she would be comfortable. I just don't see where I am out of line to expect that she could take just a little bit of it off my plate. To lessen my load just a hair. When ever I'm home I do everything, it's ridiculous, as soon as I get home she quits. I take care of the kids, cook dinner, clean everything, every night after working. She works one day a week and expects that I have the house cleaned top to bottom and that I have dinner started, and if I don't she comes in and starts shit with me like you wouldn't believe. I cook dinner 3 to 4 nights a week and I'm lucky if she cooks once a month. I just don't get it. Than if I bring it up to her about how the relationship is one sided I'm some sort of huge ass hole. I just don't understand.
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suckerfree55:
It's such a sham because I do try and talk to her, and I always get the same response. Which is never positive. She usually ends up freaking out and throwing a fit so that she doesn't have to deal with it. There is never any resolve to the situation. In 8 years she's never admit that she might be wrong about anything, and she has never apologized for anything. I mentioned to her that it looked like she might be depressed and I tried to get her to talk to me about it, but she throw a huge fit over that and stormed off so she didn't have to deal with it.
kay:
Hope all is going well!