I'm pretty sure due to the absence and everything no one would read this but yeah I'm posting again. This membership at least requires one post a year and this may be it.
I'll be honest ppl in long term relationships help me because I'm losing my mind right now. I think I'm losing my girl to a girl and as much as that hurts (me losing her) I don't know how to survive without her anymore. Did I not pay enough attention to her? Too much? I don't know anymore =(
If You think you have something please reply =( I just have the awkwardness
i_am_ghost:
That sucks dude. All I know is that if someone wants to leave, they will leave. As much as it hurts to think about.. And I won't say everyone will be better off, the truth is that it is the worst and it will be awful for ages. It doesn't make a difference if it's a guy or a girl, if she ends up being unfaithful then you shouldn't put up with that. I don't think I've provided any good advice or made any sense here I kind of just went stream of consciousness. Sad face.
madmaxthehatter:
all you can do is be yourself and do you best if they are not staying then they will leave. I would advise trying to talk to her and if its salvagable then give it a shot, it may not be salvagable and then its time to end it.