Well another day alive. My relationship still sucks, but what are you going to do? I still think she is at least preparing to cheat on me. A friend of mine offered to tail her when she goes out but I declined his offer. Maybe I'm too afraid of what he might find out. I'm just wondering if there are any other married people on this site. If there are I wonder if you find some of my wife's behavior normal. Satying out until dawn with people I don't know, not wearing her wedding ring, seeming distant and being unresponsive to things that I do for her. There are some more personal things that I don't want to get into, but I don't know how much longer I can live like this. Thanks for the comment last week Nomadgirl. It made me feel like I wasn't all alone. 