stevefromhere

Yeah, it's been a while again. And again, "I've been busy". Too busy actually. Things are getting hard to handle these days. Full time job, plus full time band, leaves very little time for anything else.
I've actually been getting a lot of complaints from people about the way I live life. You know, "missing out" on so many "great opportunities" because I choose to devote my time to other things. The whole "You're gonna look back one day and realize what you gave up and what you missed out on, and I hope it's all worth it to you" lecture that I've heard so many times.
My opinion is this:
I don't look at it as "missing out", or "passing up" on things or people, or whatever. I feel like, if I were to not do what I do on a daily basis, and just go do all of these other things in life.... THEN I would be "missing out". The entire time I was with whomever, or doing whatever, I would be thinking about what I "should" be doing.
Would you really want me to be hanging out with you, and thinking about something completely different the whole time? Or not have a good time because of it? I think not.
So, I know that this is what I want, and that I am making the right choices in giving up certain things, because I AM HAPPY NOW. Non-believers beware, your wake-up call is coming soon..... I promise.
So, yeah, I am hanging by the "Girls don't like guys in bands 'cuz they're never around, and when they are.... no one cares" noose. What's it to ya?

And a big "THANX" goes out to my SG friend in CHI for "helping us out" last weekend. This is for you, kid ;0)~

Feel free to drop me a line, if you'd like.