I have no open forum on which to discuss any problems I may have in my life.
I don't feel comfortable asking people's advice about relationships here because some one with whom I was involved is on here. Hell... I bought her the subscription while we were still involved.
I can't post on the other forum I talk on. Partially because I'm trackable there as well, but mostly because I don't need the advice of 40 year olds or 13 year olds.
So if I want to ask a general opinion of what I should do regarding females, dating, etc... where do I have left? I'm not asking my parents for damn sure. And my sis is usually as screwed up as I am on those subjects.
I wonder if I really should move to St. Paul at all. Moving closer to some one that I'm not involved with but have feelings for seems like a really bad idea when it's unknown if it'd ever work again, or if we'd even want to try. I don't stay friends with exes. It's just policy at this point. Something's kinda wierd about having polite conversation over lunch with some one you've fucked. I've tried.
I don't feel comfortable asking people's advice about relationships here because some one with whom I was involved is on here. Hell... I bought her the subscription while we were still involved.
I can't post on the other forum I talk on. Partially because I'm trackable there as well, but mostly because I don't need the advice of 40 year olds or 13 year olds.
So if I want to ask a general opinion of what I should do regarding females, dating, etc... where do I have left? I'm not asking my parents for damn sure. And my sis is usually as screwed up as I am on those subjects.
I wonder if I really should move to St. Paul at all. Moving closer to some one that I'm not involved with but have feelings for seems like a really bad idea when it's unknown if it'd ever work again, or if we'd even want to try. I don't stay friends with exes. It's just policy at this point. Something's kinda wierd about having polite conversation over lunch with some one you've fucked. I've tried.
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My advice? Ask people whose opinions and common sense you respect. Write out the questions the way you'd put them in your journal or in the Dating Sucks! group. Then just copy-paste them to the people you want to ask. Under the circumstances, it's no breach of etiquette to send people the same thing. You get the catharsis of writing, the clarity that sometimes comes of seeing your thoughts put into concrete form, and -- with a little luck -- good advice that didn't require you to put your problems completely in the public view.
I'm sorry, that's rude as hell. I just got out of the world's most fucked up relationship. we can discuss interpersonal matters over beer and Chee-tos sometime.