Dude, this year was nuts. I've only been active on this site for like, 2 months so most of what I did in 2018, you guys don't know about. I'm gonna recap the highlights and then see where the ramblings take me for this blog post.
First a bit of back story from the end of 2017. My husband's grandmother passed and left us her house and property. She had the most peaceful passing one could when dying from cancer, and it was a relief. The house was much too small, expensive to expand, and the road was a country drive when build in the 1950's, but now basically a highway connecting rural to urban. With 4 kids, we didn't want to raise them where they couldn't even ride bikes down the street. We sold the house and property, sold the house we had purchased ourselves 5 years prior, and put a crazy offer on our dream home. OK, on to 2018...
March 1st we moved into our new home! It's been fucking crazy living here. I have a goddamn mini orchard out back. I have aged grape vines that cover my lower back patio. I have apples, pears, and even persimmons for fuck sake! (which btw taste like death when they're not finished ripening) The house gives each kid their own room and we have rooms to spare. It's like a goddamn mini mansion. I love it.
Ok, so between the last bit and the next bit I have to throw in here that I am raising 2 teen girls. It's exhausting.
Fast forward to summer and I am really hating my job managing a bar that I had used to love, but was going through changes that I had no control over. )Not having control is hard for me) I decide that it's time to say goodbye and move on. I then hate the next place I manage almost immediately. I realize that it's me being tired of the industry, too. It's not just the places and staff. I quit and feel aimless for a bit.
Fall comes, I finish out my last day at work and decide to finally finish my degree. I enrolled in my local community college and start classes on the 2nd! I literally have 3 classes left and I'll have my AAS with a ton of Biology shit on top of it that will allow me to apply for a ton of different program (if I can ever pick one).
Around this time I start thinking about getting back into sex work, nude shit, SG goals, etc. I originally started a couple years ago, but I'll save that for another blog...
I talk about it with my husband, and he's like well, uh, do whatever you want and you know I'll help with whatever you need. I logged into my account here for the first time in months, hit up some groups, and started connecting with people on a new IG account.
AND HOLY SHIT! I started connecting with really cool people, learning more about this lifestyle/work/whatever you call it that I love so much, and I haven't had a single fucking dick pic! (On SG, to be clear) I have never experienced such an amazong, positive, uplifting community anywhere. In life or online, especially.
All this shit and it's the start of a new year, and I literally CANNOT FUCKIGN WAIT to see what we all do here in muhfukken 2019!
SO, here's a few goals I got already...
1. Actually do a SG worthy set so I can be a Hopeful. Not to say my shit isn't good, but it doesn't meet the guidelines they have laid out.
2. Finish my degree.
3. Visit Europe with my husband and 2 BFF
4. Finish my goddamn Star Wars sleeve! I'm going on 5 years here.. it's silly.
5. Get my Spider-Man tattoo done!
Welp, thank for reading if you made it this far! I fucking dig this website and I cannot wait to blast through 2019 with you beautiful fucks.
-Soiled
