4/8: What is something you wish you'd learned sooner?

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This is my first blog homework and to my mind my english is kinda poor but i've always wanted to write one so please excuse my mistakes <3

Since when i was a kid i wasn't that sporty kind of a person. Sure me and friends were playing games outdoors running at the streets and playing with ball but i don't consider that as sports. And i wish i knew about fitness benefits sooner. Maybe i wouldn't have that anorexic look now or when i had my extra weight earlier. I am training for a year already but it seems like nothing changes. That's only because i started my friendship with fitness as a greener. If i knew that my self-appraisal depends on my body shape i would begin training when i was 15 and now i'd look better. Anyway if that happened in the way i described i wouldn't become the person i am now and things would be different. Anyway i am going to go at fitness instructor classes soon to make myself a perfect shape.

it always was hard for me to write big texts. And i think i can finish at this point. Blog homework was kind of a challenge ahah) Thank you @missy and @rambo

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durza1052:
Mine is "You can't make everybody happy." This has several parts and a lifetimes worth of impact. I mean it in every interpretable way. I always felt like my goal in life is to be the punching bag, the stepping stone, the therapist, the healer, the good guy, the fixer. All because I'm really good at it. In 1st grade, my teachers told my parents I would be an amazing counselor or therapist or something in the field of psychologically helping people. FIRST GRADE! Fast forward 15+ years to today at 21 years old, I have customers that come in and just tell me their whole lives story or their problems that they're going through. Not the "Oh, I'm going through a divorce, but I'm okay." But the whole breaking down "We met 13 years ago at this study session in Tempe... *insert 13 years of relationships worth of stories and emotions*"  for HOURS! My friends and coworkers all do the same thing. "Broken" girls seek me out for relationships and I fall for it and end up pouring myself into them to fix them. Then, they leave. So... if I knew that I couldn’t make everybody happy at the beginning, then I wouldn't have dedicated my life to putting everybody first. It's very difficult to change from it. But I am learning. I'm important too. I matter. It's okay to put me first. You shouldn't have to hurt yourself to make others feel better. And sometimes, it'll never be enough, sometimes people just take and take. 
elaena:
Great blog ! 💕

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