" I'd rather hurt than feel nothing at all. " Lady Antebellum
So I have a weird predicament I really need some advice on....
My Ex from three years ago has started contacting me saying how much he misses me etc., etc..
And of course he has all these good things going on. New place, well paid job, blah, blah, blah and wants to see me again, be friends, or what the fuck ever.
I'm really confused by his actions and am at a definite red light because he was one of my worst breakups but greatest loves. I always wished we had worked it out and lasted. I can honestly admit I have thought of him every day since and what I could have done to fix things.
Then there is the huge factor that I am pretty content in my current relationship and can see it maybe growing into something solid.
I'm not at all thinking of cheating but I wonder if I should even continue talking to him because of how mixed my emotions are when I do. I feel weak inside when I hear his voice, like putty.
I just don't know.
So I have a weird predicament I really need some advice on....
My Ex from three years ago has started contacting me saying how much he misses me etc., etc..
And of course he has all these good things going on. New place, well paid job, blah, blah, blah and wants to see me again, be friends, or what the fuck ever.
I'm really confused by his actions and am at a definite red light because he was one of my worst breakups but greatest loves. I always wished we had worked it out and lasted. I can honestly admit I have thought of him every day since and what I could have done to fix things.
Then there is the huge factor that I am pretty content in my current relationship and can see it maybe growing into something solid.
I'm not at all thinking of cheating but I wonder if I should even continue talking to him because of how mixed my emotions are when I do. I feel weak inside when I hear his voice, like putty.
I just don't know.
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Other than the general rule,
just do what's right, for you.
My 2-cents are, Don't rush and follow heart but keep a open mind of what the consequences of each decision could be.......