The lady and I today agreed that we have become such a touchy/feely/insane in our own little world/needy/never apart couple that it is seriously affecting our social lives. Right off the bat I can't think of the last time we went out with a group of people for fun, drunken times. And as much as we love sitting in, watching dvd after dvd and playing loads of playtation 2, listening to choons and other things that couples do when they are alone (nudge nudge) we have agreed that we are in danger of becoming total outcasts and must remedy this as soon as possible.
That's my big news for today. A social life shall be had sooner rather than later. I do miss going out with folks. I miss the days where I used to go to the 13th Note and Sleazies and Rufus and know LOTS of people. Not that I need that, it was just kinda fun. I must re-learn how to be social. I have noticed even with my band-mates that, due to living in my own little cocoon and having my own private sense of humour with the lady, that I find it difficult to join in and be my old self. I think people are noticing the new, quieter me and they think I'm even odder than I was before.
Wish us luck. We may need it.
Paris and my first plane journey is just over a month away. I am having random snaps of utter panic here and there but overall I think I am approaching it well. I really do want to get over there and experience a new culture as not being able to leave the country has restricted my experiences in this large planet of ours.
The band hopefully have a new guy coming in to sing with us on Monday after the last guy messed us about and didn't turn up 2 weeks in a row. Things have become very stagnant and we just want to get a move on and get the songs sorted so we can play gigs again.
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That's my big news for today. A social life shall be had sooner rather than later. I do miss going out with folks. I miss the days where I used to go to the 13th Note and Sleazies and Rufus and know LOTS of people. Not that I need that, it was just kinda fun. I must re-learn how to be social. I have noticed even with my band-mates that, due to living in my own little cocoon and having my own private sense of humour with the lady, that I find it difficult to join in and be my old self. I think people are noticing the new, quieter me and they think I'm even odder than I was before.
Wish us luck. We may need it.
Paris and my first plane journey is just over a month away. I am having random snaps of utter panic here and there but overall I think I am approaching it well. I really do want to get over there and experience a new culture as not being able to leave the country has restricted my experiences in this large planet of ours.
The band hopefully have a new guy coming in to sing with us on Monday after the last guy messed us about and didn't turn up 2 weeks in a row. Things have become very stagnant and we just want to get a move on and get the songs sorted so we can play gigs again.
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i know how that couples thing is. I tried to designate "days off" from my boyfriend when we first met... because it scared me that we spent so much time together. On our first scheduled day off... I ended up driving behind him down the street... so he pulled over and I pulled up beside him and said... "w'll we already fucked up not seeing each other today, so you might as well just come on over..."
and he did...
we have been inseperable since we first met.
kinda sickening, isn't it?
Really... I would think that you wou;dn't have troubl;e finding someone who at least would show up for their trial run!
So what are you doing in Paris? traveling for fun/vacation?