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I haven't posted in a while, but I think that's okay because no one really reads the shit I post. I'm not complaining or fishing for attention by saying that, it's just a fact. It doesn't bother me at all. I post these for myself, so I couldn't possibly care less if anyone reads these.
Anyhow, I've got hot flashes, chills, and night sweats. I've...
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Last weekend, a woman on Facebook liked my dating profile. I looked at her profile, and loved what I read. She was drop dead gorgeous, too. I liked her profile, and sent her a message based on our shared interest in Lucifer. We moved to Facebook Messenger and started talking. We have so much in common that sometimes I feel like I'm talking to myself....
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pistache:
Cheering for you.
So fifteen years ago, a friend of mine (Scott) invited me to hang out with him and another of his friends, a flamboyantly gay man named Chris (I'm not changing names. Fuck these people).We went to the local gay bar, which I usually tried to avoid. Toxic masculinity is a thing with gay men, and this bar had a disproportionate amount of it. One can...
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sloppy_carlton:
Thank you, Luci. You're absolutely wonderful. Yesterday was pretty fucking raw. I'm still numb and I haven't really slept since that realization dawned on me. I told my ex, who is also the closest thing I have to a best friend. I told her about the incident before, but I framed it as if I was exploring my sexually and I tap danced around the issue of consent. Yesterday I told her the whole truth. I also alluded to it in a Facebook status update, saying that I would share when I felt ready to. I want to come forward publicly, but honestly, I'm afraid to. I know in my head that my friends will be supportive, but toxic masculinity is insidious. It manifests externally in how men can view and treat women, and it manifests internally, with how we view ourselves as men. As much as I know in my head that my experience does not make me less of a man, try telling my heart that. I have this irrational fear that people who know me are going to see me as less of a man. I worry that once I share my story outside of my feminist bubble, it's not going to be taken seriously because it happened so long ago, or because it wasn't as bad as it could have been, or because I outwardly seem like I have my shit together (when inside I'm being held together with duct tape, baling wire, and spit).
elune:
Thank you for sharing.🖤
I shared some of this on @luciloser's IG, but I'm going to share it here, and provide an update. First, some background... I was in an almost ten year relationship that ended three years ago. In hindsight, we just weren't right for each other and we should have ended it a lot sooner. Despite that, the relationship ending wrecked me pretty badly. I only started...
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luciloser:
💛 you'll get there but I agree the bar scene is weird and plenty of fish is a minefield... I mean shit that's where I met Arc!!
sloppy_carlton:
Well, if Arc met you there... The woman I'm talking to now ok POF seems cool. In my first message, I told her that I am definitely a madman with a box, that I would stand guard over the Pandorica for a thousand years if she was inside it, and that if she went missing If waltz onto a Cybermen base in full Roman legionary dress, presenting them with a message and a question. Then I said that we could write erotic friend fiction and fill the pages with butt touching. Afterward, we could sing "Elderly Prostitute" together. She said that she was really into Doctor Who and Bob's Burgers...
For all your unsolicited Dick pic needs. Send one to that cute girl who just gave you her number. I dare you.
shalil:
🤣
That's at least what I gathered from @luciloser's livestream last night. I'm going to need to make some fasces. Anyone know where I can get a lot of riding crops for cheap? I'm thinking a bunch of riding crops bundled together with a wooden spanking paddle sticking out from them.
luciloser:
I love that my Losers are taking their duties so seriously 😆🥰
I've been single for three years, and have spent about two months actively looking for either a relationship or at least a hookup (which isn't really what I'm looking for, but it's been three years since I've gotten laid). It's rough for a guy in his late 30s here. For example, last week I bought this cute woman a drink and started chatting her up,...
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I've started to listen to (and like) Tegan and Sarah, CHVRCHES, and Hellogoodbye, and I want to find more bands that have similar sounds. Normally that wouldn't be a problem, but I don't know how that's going to look with all the Combichrist, VNV Nation, Miss Construction, NIN, Imperative Reaction, and other groups in my playlist.
francy:
nice
louiseethel:
this pic is really cool !!
Just put one around each arm just above the cuff and fold the cuffs once or twice to cover them.
Also, make sure that the blazer fits properly in the arms. You might want to avoid rolling the cuffs on a more expensive blazer, too. I will only do it with blazers that cost less than $150.
I'm staying at my mom's for a few days while she is in Bourbonnais for something with her work. I'm dog sitting. I miss my computer. It is much easier to masturbate at home. All I have to help me jerk my gherkin are my phone and one of my tablets. The only places I can go to find good wanking material are here and...
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I got my LG G Pad 7 back today. It had a shattered screen, so I bought a replacement screen, thinking I'd do the repair myself. Unfortunately, I was elbow deep in its guts before I realized that I would need a heat gun to separate the screen and digitizer from the rest of the tablet. I really didn't want to pay $60 for a...
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