Ok, so I've decided maybe I'm a chicken.
I sit at the bar, surrounded by a bunch of cool guys.
And there on the dance floor is the most amazing looking woman. She's not the 'hottest' woman in the bar. But really, that's not what I'm about. I like a certain 'style' combined with a certain way of moving, and a certain kind of attitude etc.
Suffice to say, I think she's 'all that and a bag of chips.'
But I never walk over and talk to her. In fact, she sat alone for 20 minutes before her group of friends arrived, and while I thought I should go at least introduce myself, I never did.
Is there ever an easy way to 'break the ice?' I'm not sure there is, and as far as I'm concerned, even attempting sux ass.
That's my thought for tonight, anyway. And I'm kinda grouchy that I didn't have the nerve to say, 'Hello.'
I sit at the bar, surrounded by a bunch of cool guys.
And there on the dance floor is the most amazing looking woman. She's not the 'hottest' woman in the bar. But really, that's not what I'm about. I like a certain 'style' combined with a certain way of moving, and a certain kind of attitude etc.
Suffice to say, I think she's 'all that and a bag of chips.'
But I never walk over and talk to her. In fact, she sat alone for 20 minutes before her group of friends arrived, and while I thought I should go at least introduce myself, I never did.
Is there ever an easy way to 'break the ice?' I'm not sure there is, and as far as I'm concerned, even attempting sux ass.
That's my thought for tonight, anyway. And I'm kinda grouchy that I didn't have the nerve to say, 'Hello.'

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lightbulbjack:
Merry Ho Ho

osoesoteric:
i know exactly how you feel... i'm really shy when aproching people i don't know and probably because of it i've lost out on alot of things... my advice is to just go for it... there no harm in trying... if she isn't interested she's just going to say no or ignore you at worst... damn i wish i could take my own advice... good luck...