So tired....up earlier today than normal....have to get everything ready for hubbys birthday. I swear my son thinks that now is the best time to start shooting nerf darts at the bedroom door. I don't know how children always seem to know when is the worst moment to be loud but they do ....I know its my husbands birthday and today should be as he wants it but I get a little frustrated when he wont make up his mind as to what he wants to do. I spend weeks asking, giving ideas, ect. and he still cant make up his mind. Now its too late to make reservations anywhere and he will grumble if we have to wait more than 15 mins. I just want things to go well and I don't mind putting the time into getting things set. I understand that things happen that don't always make things go as planned but it would sure nice to know what the plan might fricken be! I guess thats the fundamental difference between men and women.... women need the anticipation of the event, the romance of the plan as well as the moment. We derive great satisfaction from getting everything in order and watching as it falls into place....(most women not all) where as men more seem to just arrive at the moment and most often just make the best of it. (most men not all) I swear it frustrates me to no end sometimes... good thing I love him 