There are some emotions which are impossible to deal with... My estranged wife called me today. (Estranged not because of violence, or infidelity, or malice, or indifference, but because I wasn't fun enough). Our conversation was civil, as always. I asked her if she would return my wedding ring, and she said no, that I had no right to ask that (no right? That ring...
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There are few things as beautiful and soul clearing as the Oregon coast in the ectasy of a storm. I watched the waves until the violent crashes became graceful dances... and found at least a moment of peace.
The truth is, life is all the experience that we endure without the benefit of love. Love validates the experience, and in doing so the experience moves beyond itself, creating something which the signs and symbols of language can only point to, but not fully express.
And now life is the vacuum of absence of that unity.
It is a tender wound which lost love...
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And now life is the vacuum of absence of that unity.
It is a tender wound which lost love...
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roopie:
Thankyou for the lovely comment on my set 
Anyone see tsar and Juliette? Anyone? A transcendent show, club music as it was meant to be.
Anyone gonna check out the Juiliette and the Licks show?
I love burger and brew at Sixth Street. Just thought I would share.
Due to my desire to read Russian literature and drink vodka, I have decided not to heat my house this winter. A non-sequitur? Of course.
As I walked along the wet sidewalk, I gave a brief eulogy for each of the fallen leaves. Progress was measured in inches, of course; but the nobility of the pursuit made the tediousness bearable.
I went to the Bright Eyes concert last nigh. I have never heard their music before, so I entered the McDonald with a bit of scepticism, but I must admit, I quite enjoyed the show.
It is amazing, what life can toss you in the middle of the night. One year ago, I was happily married to an amazing woman. Today? She is gone, having decided that marriage was a mistake; there is surely more to life than wedded bliss. As for myself, well, alone I gather the pieces. Such joy.
LaceyK, I sat home tonight watching reruns with my kitty on my lap, and came to a rather stark revelation... many things may be taken from a man, but a man's kitty, like his hat and his beer, are sacrosanct, and cannot be touched by anyone.
As for her reasons for wanting the keep the ring, I honestly don't know. Certainly, I am the one who believes in the validity of marriage, and thus the symbolism of the ring. She doesn't believe in the former, and I cannot see why she should stick to the latter.
Your better off without out the ring for now. I'd trade the gold and gain your soul back.
Kitties the deal breaker........Tell her to get another pussy.