So a few blogs ago I mentioned that it's important to be supportive of people, to give them encouragement when they need it and to realize that everyone is fighting a battle that you know nothing about. This blog is about the opposite side of that.

I have a friend. She is a nice friend, and at one point I was into her. Anyway...
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This kind of goes hand-in-hand with my blog from yesterday. A lot of times, in hetero relationships (I'm going to assume that it is mostly the same in homo relationships, but I don't want to talk out of turn if it isn't), it seems like society puts all the pressure on the female to be the sexy one in the relationship. There...
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sheashannara:
@pipercadence OK, good.  I'm not trying to say "I'm enlightened" but I definitely didn't mean ill by it :)
pipercadence:
Ok coolness.  Try "same sex" next time. 😀  lol did I mention I have a temper?  Lol.  Have a cool day.  Need to get all focused now.

This is a conversation I have had plenty of time with my male friends, and a few times with my female friends (though with them, it had to come up naturally. Otherwise, you're just a creepy weirdo perv), and I just want you ladies to know:

You have no idea that some of the things you do are sexy.

Now, I'm not talking...
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ainoa:
Thank you for this blog, loved reading it :)
sheashannara:
@ainoa you're welcome, glad you enjoyed it :)

So the other day I had my nephew in the car with us (he's just 10 days older than my first son), and we were all singing along to Sheppard (that's me, my daughter, and both of my sons). My nephew seemed annoyed by this, and later on finally said that he didn't like that band, and he thought it was "weird...
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So this morning I woke up from a nightmare, which more than likely was brought on by my nerves, since by next week's end I should have put my first book out for self-publishing. Anyway, in the nightmare, I knew plenty of people who all expected me to give them a copy of my book for free.

Art (and I'm including music and...
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sheashannara:
@ainoa this is very true.  Now, little things like that don't bother me.  It's only when you have friends that try and take advantage of it.  I have a really good friend, she is a hairdresser.  She gives all of us good friends discounts when she cuts our hair or stuff like that.  One mutual friend, when she first started, would get her hair cut and colored and then offer to make her a home-cooked meal.  The first few times was OK, but after a while it's like, "OK, I can't pay my rent off of free meals" and she finally cut her off.
ainoa:
yeah, some people just dont get that :S -_- 

In some of the groups I am in here on SG, there are two ladies who often post pictures of themselves naked (appropriate for the groups they post in), and though they are much beloved, desired and complimented often by others, for some reason I don't find either one of them attractive.

This felt weird to me. It wasn't that they were being...
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ainoa:
*hug* have a nice day :)
sheashannara:
@ainoa you too!

Like a lot of people, I interact with lots of others in different age ranges; some are close to my own age, some are 5-15 years younger (or older), and some are even younger than that! I think it's good, to not just be friends (or friendly) with people your own age. Talking to someone else that is much younger or older gives you...
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So there was a woman I was talking to, we've been talking for 2 months now, and she lives in Russia. Let's for a minute just assume that she was real. Yes, I know that people lie on the Internet, and since we met on a dating site, it really could have been some guy from Brooklyn; but, all of the pictures showed...
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gmuller:
I have become completely confused on this point.  What I need or want or at least imagine I want is not in general on offer.  The word companion invokes such amazing images for me and yet the women that I meet seem to without exception be looking for a traditional husband - husband in the original sense of husbandry that looks after the livestock - LOL - yes sorts out the problems, provides for a comfortable life, provides the appropriate partner image to family and friends and so on - everything I'm not interested in.  For the moment at least it seems a lot safer to lie low and ignore that part of life ..
sheashannara:
@gmuller I agree; being a traditional "husband" in which I do everything and she just sits at home and takes care of the household is nothing like what I desire in life...

So yesterday I ran my D&D game, which we have been doing this campaign for over 2 years now. I've been DMing (that's Dungeon Mastering, which is basically the referee of the game for those who don't know) since I was 16, so 25 years of my life I have been into role-playing. And not just D&D either: Shadowrun, Earthdawn...
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pipercadence:
I remember a guy once invited me to play Pathfinder.  It was fun until some of the players got pissed at the DM (Is that the universal term) and accused him of showing me favoritism.  Only time I played a game like that.  I just wanted to be a witch 😏
sheashannara:
@pipercadence yeah, that is the universal term, though RPG dorks would say that the term GM (or Gamesmaster) is more correct, especially if you are running a modern setting game.  Those type of people also never have sex either, so their opinion doesn't count ;)

I'm going full-on geeky here, so just to warn those who may not know that about me (though if you have seem some of my pictures and don't know I'm a geek, not sure how many more clues I could give)...

OK, just finished reading issue #41 of Batman. The one where, now that Bruce Wayne is dead (though rumors of his...
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