So basically i'm a typical guy, always liking a girl, and getting confused by her, haha. I've known her since elementary school, and hadn't gotten along with her until high school, when she was no longer a cheerleader-prep-stuck up bitch (and not all cheerleaders or preps are assholes). Everytime that one of us would be single, the other would be with someone, but she kept making the comment that it was too bad things were how they panned out, because we would have been good together. Well now we're both single, and we're hanging out a bit, so things are starting to look good.
Now here's the thing, the girl has slept with 20 somethin guys which intimidates the shit out of me (I at least know shes clean) because I definately haven't been with anywhere NEAR that amount, shes also gone through a lesbian stage (she had a girlfriend for 4 years, and it wasn't really a "phase" thing, they really did love each other in the romantic sense) so the possibility in losing her to a female if we do get together is also something that freaks me out. She also smokes, drinks, does pot, and has done worse in the past, which im getting more relaxed about drinking, but smoking and drugs im still completely against smoking (though i'll have a cigar every great once in a while...as in like once every couple of months, and thats been a recent thing).
But the biggest thing is, she's got a crazy ex, whom has told her that he HAS to see her every single day. He goes ballistic on her if he doesn't, and he's a stalker and still loves her. I met him a week ago and the kid creeps me out, its just uncomfortable to be around them at the same time.
So basically, shes spending the night this coming wednesday as well as friday, im trying to figure out if I should ask her if shes fooling around with her ex, before I see her, when I see her, or if I should at all.
Now here's the thing, the girl has slept with 20 somethin guys which intimidates the shit out of me (I at least know shes clean) because I definately haven't been with anywhere NEAR that amount, shes also gone through a lesbian stage (she had a girlfriend for 4 years, and it wasn't really a "phase" thing, they really did love each other in the romantic sense) so the possibility in losing her to a female if we do get together is also something that freaks me out. She also smokes, drinks, does pot, and has done worse in the past, which im getting more relaxed about drinking, but smoking and drugs im still completely against smoking (though i'll have a cigar every great once in a while...as in like once every couple of months, and thats been a recent thing).
But the biggest thing is, she's got a crazy ex, whom has told her that he HAS to see her every single day. He goes ballistic on her if he doesn't, and he's a stalker and still loves her. I met him a week ago and the kid creeps me out, its just uncomfortable to be around them at the same time.
So basically, shes spending the night this coming wednesday as well as friday, im trying to figure out if I should ask her if shes fooling around with her ex, before I see her, when I see her, or if I should at all.