serenity225

Thankfully I've had enough forethought not to friend request a few people on SG who appear to be the type of people who are openminded, honest, and able to disagree without being disagreeable. I've quit yet another group because that group, while I give TOTAL PROPS to the owner for giving it her all in keeping things drama free, is full of drama from just a minute few members. It was the exact place that one was supposed to go and be free to be exactly who they are with no apologies. Yeah, like that can happen on the internet. But again, nice try to the owner. Her heart is in the right place and she does squash it when she sees it.

The whole issue is that even in that community I'm a minority because of my spiritual and political beliefs. I knew as soon as I let that out of the bag I'd be ostracized and yep, I was. I make no apologies for who I am and what I believe. Fuck that! But I do know how to be on the opposing side of an arguement and not be an asshole to the people I disagree with. It's amazing how people's true colors come out when you refuse to bow to their agenda.

Sick actually. There is a total lack of ability on some people's part to keep the focus on themselves and in the case of many far left people they think that name calling and attacking are the same as debating an issue. That couldn't be farther from the truth yet some people couldn't see the truth if it jumped up and kicked them in the face. Fact of the matter is insecurity breeds hatred and I feel no need to push my beliefs on another to make myself feel comfortable. I don't tend to get the same courtesy.

I'm not judging anyone's beliefs or anyones choice of lifestyle. I believe that how I choose to live is good for me and how others choose to live is good for them. I can't live as others do in the world in general or I'd be miserable and I certainly wouldn't and don't expect other people to live how they'd be unhappy living to make me comfortable. Fact is I'm comfortable with people from al walks and no one has to be what I think they should be to be ok with myself.

The haters need to look at their own hate for others and stop projecting it off on to other people. SG just is not a safe place to make friends or to be yourself even. Go fucking figure, can't be yourself on SG. Who'd a thunk that shit.

Oh well, my friends list is down by a couple. I've quit another group. It sucks but that's how it goes. Thankfully there is life outside the internet. To my true friends on here. The mature ones who know how to live and let live I loves you guys. I thank you for your support and your love. Thanks for having my back and know that I've got yours.