So for the longest time, I've had this "heartbreaker" reputation that has haunted me. It made me feel like a bad person, because I was the one always ending things with boys. And then, I guilt myself into thinking that I'm some sort of she-devil or something, and blame myself for their post-breakup issues (such as depression, drinking, etc.) But I just realized something...
It's not that I'm a heartless person for breaking up with guys, it's that I've been picking the the wrong ones! I shouldn't feel bad for calling a quits on a man who is a liar, a cheater, abusive, a pussy, or careless, right? What's weird is that I've had these killer successful long-term relationships, and then all of the sudden, the last 3 dudes I've actually tried dating, were so lame! And I kept thinking, "Is something wrong with my game? Why are these guys being douchebags?". All it takes is one crummy ass dude to ruin relationships for a girl. Now I'm kind of turned off by the concept of a serious relationship...
I feel like I've lost faith in men. Unless some sexy, smart, dynamite-in-bed dude can come along, sweep me off my feet and prove me wrong... When pigs fly maybe?
Until then, I'm gonna enjoy being singe and live my life. I'm happy enough with myself that I don't need a man at this point. Though I'm not opposed to the idea, just very cautious at this point.
It's not that I'm a heartless person for breaking up with guys, it's that I've been picking the the wrong ones! I shouldn't feel bad for calling a quits on a man who is a liar, a cheater, abusive, a pussy, or careless, right? What's weird is that I've had these killer successful long-term relationships, and then all of the sudden, the last 3 dudes I've actually tried dating, were so lame! And I kept thinking, "Is something wrong with my game? Why are these guys being douchebags?". All it takes is one crummy ass dude to ruin relationships for a girl. Now I'm kind of turned off by the concept of a serious relationship...
I feel like I've lost faith in men. Unless some sexy, smart, dynamite-in-bed dude can come along, sweep me off my feet and prove me wrong... When pigs fly maybe?
Until then, I'm gonna enjoy being singe and live my life. I'm happy enough with myself that I don't need a man at this point. Though I'm not opposed to the idea, just very cautious at this point.
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sinwithagrin:
Nothing wrong with that unless there's some psychological pattern that makes you chose the wrong guys. My guess is you're doing what most young people should be doing: meet as many people as possible and try to find out what you really want in a boyfriend. Most people get stuck in relationships because it's convenient or they're just too lazy to move on. Women also get stuck in relationships because of social pressures, i.e. they're being labelled a slut if they change bfs too often.
bedheadchicken:
put a dildo on your wishlist and I'll get it for you. swear. 